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Do We Have a ThrowAway Society? And Why You Should Care?

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Do we have a throwaway society? I mean, sure, sometimes it seems like we do. But is that really how things are?

When we think of the modern world, we tend to picture it as something new, something different. 

We tend to think that our society is better than the ones before it. But is it? This post will talk about throwaway society and why you should care about it. 

Throwaway culture is one where we as a society have become accustomed to discarding things, and discarding is seen as the norm. 

The resources that we have at our disposal might seem limitless, but we don’t realize that these resources are finite. 

Throwaway culture is one where we as a society have become accustomed to discarding things, and discarding is seen as the norm. 

The resources that we have at our disposal might seem limitless, but we don’t realize that these resources are finite. 

In a fast-paced, always-changing world, we are forced to make fast decisions and quick decisions that we don’t think twice about. 

We discard items without thinking, without questioning if we can truly get something useful out of them. Even if these items don’t seem important at the time, they will have a major impact on us in the future.

What is a “Throwaway” Item?

A throwaway item is something that we use for a short period and then throw it away. Anything from a plastic water bottle to a pair of running shoes can be considered a “throwaway” item. 

These items are usually not recycled because of a lack of awareness and infrastructure. Some countries have taken steps toward banning single-use plastics, but this is not the case for most other countries.

 A throwaway item is something that we use for a short period and then throw it away. Anything from a plastic water bottle to a pair of running shoes can be considered a “throwaway” item. 

These items are usually not recycled because of a lack of awareness and infrastructure. Some countries have taken steps toward banning single-use plastics, but this is not the case for most other countries.

The Scenario

You are on vacation and decide to go scuba diving. While diving, you realize that you forgot your water bottle. You don’t think much of it and decide to keep the water bottle. 

A few days later, you find out that this bottle was contaminated with toxic gas, and you have been poisoned. 

You have been poisoned not just because of the water you drank but also because of the plastic bottle during the dive.

 In this case, the toxic water bottle is a throwaway item that had a life-threatening impact on you. 

The toxic water bottle was only used for a short period, but it could not be safely disposed of because of its toxic nature.

Why is a Throwaway Society Bad?

One of the biggest issues with a throwaway society is that we are simply unsure of what we can get practical use out of a certain item. 

But that is the beauty of our modern society. We are constantly challenged to use our minds and think outside of the box, and most of the time, we succeed in doing so.

Why Is It a Problem?

Plastic pollution has become a big issue in recent years, but what are the other problems with a throwaway society? 

First, the issue of natural resource scarcity is a serious problem. When we use plastic water bottles or bags, we use up natural resources that could have been used for other purposes. 

The plastic pollution problem is a serious concern, but other issues with a throwaway society are also. One of these issues is that throwaway items are not always recyclable. 

When we throw away items that cannot be recycled, we throw them away. When people discard things that they cannot safely get rid of, they are just throwing them away, which is not positive.

The Conclusion

The modern world is a mix of new and old. It has brought us many advantages, such as the advancement of technology and that we can now travel to new places quickly. 

It has also brought us some issues, such as the throwaway society. We as individuals need to address this issue because the consequences could be grave. Apart from the fact that the world is getting smaller, we could also lose many of our cultural values. 

We could have a society where people are unconcerned with the environment and people’s health. 

We need to make people aware of the potential dangers of discarding items to address this issue. To do so, people need to understand what a “throwaway” item is properly.

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Mentally Abusive…I Thought He Loved Me!

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Mentally Abusive -everyone wants to believe that their partner is the one. But strange, unsettling things happen when you’re in an abusive relationship. You can’t explain them, so you rationalize them.
You keep hoping that it will get better, and you’re working hard to make it so. It is not until it’s too late.
Love is a many-splendored thing, and the feelings we have for others are deep and complex. But being in an abusive relationship is not. You may believe that you love your partner and that they love you in return.
Two weeks ago my niece was murder by her abusive husband.
Mentally abusive
You may have had your suspicions, but you were hopeful that your suspicions were wrong. Maybe they had a few bad days or a few red-wine nights. Maybe they had an ex that they weren’t getting over.
Maybe they were just stressed out or unhappy at their job. Or maybe they were being a little too nice, or a little too jealous.
But the signs of abuse are there, and they are very subtle. They are not overt or intense. They are not physical, or threatening, or violent.
They are not obvious. They’re under the surface, and that’s how the abuser stays hidden from you.

Mentally  Abusive Shaming and Blaming

Abusers use shame to control their partners. They make their victims feel as though they are to blame for the abuse.
This is one of the most damaging forms of abuse, because it breaks down trust.
You begin to question yourself and your motives. If you’re the only partner in the relationship who seems to have issues, it may seem like you are the one who has the problem.
You may start to believe that you are the cause of the abuse, even though it is clear that your partner is the one with the problem.

Isolation

When you love someone who is abusive, you may feel like you are being pulled in two directions. You want your partner to get help, but you also want them to understand you and love you the way you want to be loved.
You may feel like you have to choose between your partner and your own needs.
You may start to withdraw from friends and family, isolating yourself from support. You may start to feel unsafe, or like your partner is watching you.
You may start to have irrational fears that your partner will come to harm you. This isolation will make it more difficult for your partner to seek help for abuse.
They may try to talk to you about it, but you may not be able to understand them or listen to them.
It is common for victims of domestic abuse to isolate themselves from friends and family.
They may believe that their loved one will not approve of those people, or they may believe that the abuse will be worse if they are around other people.

Disqualifying and Demeaning

Abusers often make their partner feel like they are stupid or inferior. This is humiliating, and it is often a way to control the other person.
It may happen subtly or it may be blatant. It may even feel like it is your partner’s way of “teasing” you.
It is a way of blaming you for the abuse, which is another way of making you feel like you are to blame.

Accusing and Belittling

Abusers often accuse their partner of things that are not true. This is a way to put the other person down, to make them feel bad about themselves, and to make them question their motives and worth.
This is often coupled with belittling, which is making your partner feel bad about themselves by calling them names or making fun of their appearance.
This is another way to make you feel like you are to blame and to make you question yourself.

Emotional Manipulation

Loving someone who is abusive means that you have to deal with a lot of manipulation. Your abuser may tell you that they love you, and then they will do something that makes you doubt it.
Or they may say that they are tired, or they need time to themselves, and then they yell or threaten. The goal of manipulation is to confuse and to break you down.
You have to work hard to keep your own feelings from getting pulled into the manipulation, and to work hard to make decisions and plans without letting your abuser get to you.

Isolation and Control

It’s important to remember that even when your partner is in a bad place, you are not. When your partner is abusive, they leave you isolated physically.
They may lock you out of the house, or tell you that you cannot go see a friend or family member.
You are left with no money and no way to get to a job. You are isolated in your thoughts, your feelings, and your actions.
Isolation and Stalking
It is not uncommon for domestic abusers to track their partners. They may follow them to work and they may keep tabs on their social media. This makes it hard for the partner to feel safe.
It may feel like the partner is being stalked or chased. You may feel like you are being watched, or that you are being punished for the abuse.
This is an attempt to control you through fear. Your partner may try to tell you that it is “just” fear, but it is still control.

Isolation and Violence

Domestic violence is never okay. You may not be physically harmed, but the emotional and psychological damage is just as severe.
The isolation and control that you feel are often just as bad as the physical violence.
You may have extreme feelings of fear, you may have trouble sleeping, you may have trouble concentrating, you may have trouble holding a job.
The abuser controls your every movement, your every thought, and your every emotion. They make you feel like you are not capable of doing anything or being anything on your own.
This takes a toll on your self-esteem.

Conclusion

Abusers do not just make mistakes. They do not just get a little too angry or a little too frustrated.
They do not just push the wrong button. They do not just make poor decisions. They are abusive.
Whether you are the person who is being abused or the person who is abusing, this article is important for you to read and understand. Abuse is never okay.
It is never a mistake. It is never something that can be forgiven. It is never something that is just a little unfortunate or frightening. It is a serious, violent crime.
It is important to know how to recognize abuse, and it is important to know how to get help. You cannot stay in a relationship with an abuser and hope for the best.
The abusive person may improve for a while, but they will always have some type of violent or abusive behavior.
If it is ever dangerous for you to stay in the relationship, you must leave. You deserve better, and so does your safety.
Two weeks ago my niece was murder by her abusive husband…then he kill himself!!

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Why I Hate Florida Gov. Ron Desantis New Guidelines?

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 Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis signed new guidelines involving race-baseddiscussions in businesses and schools as part of his campaign againstcritical race theory, which he called a “pernicious” ideology.

I’m not sure what’s funnier, the fact that Ron DeSantis had to sign new guidelines involving race-based discussions in businesses and schools…OR the fact that he put his signature on them.

 If you’re one of those “politically correct” snowflakes who think things like this aren’t racist, you probably won’t find this very funny. 

But for the rest of us who realize that there’s a big difference between actual racism and calling out people when they act like idiots, we can see the humor in it all. 

Is this the start of a new era for race relations in America? 

You’re probably wondering how Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis plans to stop businesses from discussing race relations with their employees. 

When you cross an outspoken conservative with a new set of race-based guidelines for businesses, what do you get? 

If you’re Ron DeSantis, you get a signature on said guidelines. Critics are already labeling the move “political correctness run amok,” but what do they know? 

This is Florida, after all. We’ll have to wait and see how this all plays out, anyway…

What kind of crazy-ass ideology is this bullshit. Does this make sense? Hell to the NO!

The sins of your forefathers are your damn birthrights; just as everything else you inherited, all of your wealth built on the backs of SLAVE labor.

Stop all of your damn whinings and complaining about white people are inherently racist. Truth be told…some of you are rotten to the core of your soul! If the shoe fits…own it…wear it.

 To that end…Many of you people should feel guilt for past aggressions committed by your ancestors. Why? 

Because as history has shown us, the race did determine a person’s status as being privileged or oppressed back then and still does today!

The attacks of Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis are unbelievable!

“DeSantis announced Florida students would not have oppressive ideologies imposed on them, as the bill provides “substantive protections” for students in grades K to 12. “

He said “pernicious ideologies” would not be allowed.

The nitwit has announced that he will not use tax dollars to teach our kids how to hate this country or each other. 

However, he stops short of clarifying the skin color of children who will not be taught African-American history if it is only seen through the eyes of oppression and racism? 

Surely you aren’t speaking about children of color! They already know what oppression and racism are; and where they come from.

Without a doubt…it’s all about whiteness.👎🏽

To be sure…his motive against critical race theory isn’t just an attempt at rewriting the black past but also to soften any blow delivered by vicious crimes committed upon African people by their white owners.

The beating, rapes, and fathering of children with slave women… forbade them from learning to read or write, coupled with splitting families by selling them for a price.

 Why? You know—-CONTROL.

Comparatively, what the Republicans are attempting today is uniquely the same horrific insidious actions taken by buffoons in charge yesterday. 🤬

Gov. DeSantis’ your abhorrent Black attack policies will strengthen us; we are sick and tired of listening to your distorted ideologies…you are morally bankrupt.

In short, you all can’t rewrite history! What is done, and no matter how hard you jackasses try, you will not succeed in reversing the stains left behind by your ancestors in history.

Question: Have you considered how this makes the black and brown people feel? You are trying to downplay our history, stories, and prospects.🤯 … Continue reading

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The Essence Of Yourself..Find It!

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the essence of yourselfThe essence of yourself is very important. However, the human tendency to body shame or insult other people without cause is prevalent, but it’s never an appropriate way of thinking.

It is unfortunate…

People often hurt each other by commenting on their physical appearance; 

This goes for both men and women alike! 

You can never go wrong by doing this.

 Regardless of who said it first, the best thing to do if someone has said something terrible, such as “you look fat,” is to apologize profusely. 

What comes out of your mouth does not determine how deep those words go into them.

Body shaming and Insulting other people without cause is a terrible thing to do.

 Each of us is just a human being.

 We all have flaws, and we should all be treated with compassion, not criticism, no matter where we go!

By the same token, people need to be mindful, using it as a personal growth and development tool. 

Also, mindfulness can help everyone live their best life now—not just those of us who have been practicing all along…

Being mindful is a technique.

 That allows you to focus on the present moment without judgment. 

Perhaps…

 It was by accident, or maybe your search for happiness led you home – to mindfulness! 

By practicing this, we will learn to observe our thoughts and feelings instead of getting lost in them;

 Not only will we learn what was good and bad about these moments, but we’ll realize what can happen during any day when we don’t dwell on the past.

Mindfulness is all about being present. 

 And while some people are born more mindful than others, it doesn’t take much effort to cultivate your sense of self-awareness and acceptance with these practices.

I found mindfulness accidentally when I was looking for ways to be happier;

But…

 Now that I’ve started regularly practicing and being successful, there’s no turning back!

As a matter of fact… finding the essence of yourself is a fantastic way to focus on the present and not judge people.

In addition, the essence of mindfulness is simply observing without judgment or reaction.

The essence of yourself is to be mindful!

Over the years, I’ve learned that mindfulness meditation is one of many ways to connect with the soul.

Ultimately, everything in life comes down to you… what you say, do, or do not do impacts you sincerely.

Even if you follow every rule in the book, things may still go wrong.

 The key is never to stop doing the right thing.

So what’s my point?

Remember, showing up late and imperfectly is better than not showing up at all. 

Furthermore, 

Keep in mind that avoiding complicated conversations keeps you comfortable; confronting them makes you grow!

Now, this is important in uncovering the essence of yourself…

  • With personal strengths comes the balance of personal weaknesses, which is necessary for mental stability. 
  • In the absence of individual strengths or a purpose, mental strength can cause negative behaviors, including victimizing, being predictable, becoming lazy, and always looking for shortcuts.
  • Keeping an eye out for imbalances will help you adjust when it comes right down to it; behaviors and thoughts matter.

Last but not least, if you are confident and happy with yourself, you won’t feel the need to talk about other people’s bodies.

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“The energy of the mind is the essence of life.”
― Aristotle, The Philosophy of Aristotle

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DANGEROUSLY FRAUGHT WITH DANGER2!

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This photograph shows narcotics, including fentanyl, that was seized by San Francisco police officers in the Tenderloin District during a recent “narcotics enforcement,” police said.

Dangerously fraught…Christmas is a time for family, friends, and celebration.

 Unless, of course, you’re accused of killing your boyfriend with a sword on Christmas Eve. 

Then it’s just another day in court. That’s the position a Missouri woman finds herself in after her arrest on December 24, 2021.

They accused the woman of murdering her boyfriend. 

 Cape Girardeau police say Brittany Wilson, 32, was found outside the home she shared with her boyfriend Friday night covered in blood;

 And a sword was lying in the yard.

The officers arrested Wilson, went inside the house, and found Wilson’s boyfriend, Harrison Stephen Foster, 34, dead of several stab wounds.

Wilson told police that she and Foster had taken methamphetamine earlier in the day. 

She also told investigators she believed Foster had several other entities living in his body, and she was setting him free by stabbing him.

Taking methamphetamine… 

Incredibly…They charged her with murder in the first degree and armed criminal action. 

Why was that the case? I suppose it is because the drug is not used legally, and she took a life.

 However, she and her boyfriend took the potent, highly habit-forming drug together.

 Unfortunately, the demons provoked her to free her boyfriend from the other entities living within him.

She was under the influence of the drug. So, I doubt she planned to murder him in advance. 

Perhaps he was not acting like his usual self, and she felt it was her duty to free him.

 Both of them contributed to the events that occurred.

 People say they have a quick rush of euphoria shortly after using it. 

Simply put…I would not try any drugs to feel you are on cloud nine.

 It is so sad that people get caught up in drugs and lose their way. While some kick the habit, others are not so lucky.

The aftermath of watching a loved one on drugs is devastating. You want to shake the hell out of them to wake them up.

At the same time, you know it is a losing battle trying to save someone that doesn’t want to be saved.

These drugs are dangerously fraught. They can damage your body and cause severe psychological problems;

Death is a result. Last year, they found my brother dead behind a building. It was days before his body was discovered.

Because of this, I won’t describe his body; I’ll say he had to be cremated. 

I still feel like a failure because there was no way to reach him.

In any case, cocaine and fentanyl caused his death.

Who else is dying from these dangerously fraught? 

There are dozens of stories like these on Google:

Both her mother and grandmother are facing charges.

A 15-month old’s father was charged with his overdose death in Southern California. A mother of a 1-year-old in Alabama was arrested after the child overdosed.)

Then there is crystal meth.

In 2020, over 93,000 Americans died from drug overdoses, marking the most significant 1-year increase in overdose deaths ever recorded, according to provisional CDC data. 

Rising overdoses involving synthetic opioids have primarily driven this increase, mainly the highly potent fentanyl. 

Crystal meth is the common name for crystal methamphetamine, a strong and highly addictive drug that affects the central nervous system. There is no legal use for it.

It comes in clear crystal chunks or shiny blue-white rocks.

Also called “ice” or “glass,” it’s a popular party drug. Usually, users smoke crystal meth with a small glass pipe, but they may also swallow it, snort it, or inject it into a vein. 

People say they have a quick rush of euphoria shortly after using it.

But it’s dangerous. 

It can damage your body and cause severe psychological problems.

Where Does It Come From?

Methamphetamine is a man-made stimulant that’s been around for a long time. During World War II, soldiers were given meth to keep them awake.

 People have also taken the drug to lose weight and ease depression. 

Most of the crystal meth used in this country comes from Mexican “superlabs.”

 But there are many small labs in the U. S. Some are right in people’s homes.

Making meth is a dangerous process because of the chemicals involved. 

Along with being toxic, they can cause explosions.

How Does It Make You Feel?

The powerful rush people get from using meth causes many to get hooked right from the start.

That means they need higher doses to get the same high.

The higher the dose, the higher the risks. Get more information on how meth use affects the body.

In closing… fentanyl and crystal meth are dangerously fraught. 

This blog post has highlighted the dangers of these drugs, how people get hooked on them; 

Below are links to helpful information about fentanyl and crystal meth addiction treatment through the following sources:

I will discuss the dangers of drugs in future articles.

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