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Interracial Marriage: Richard & Mildred When Love Happens!

 


Mildred Jeter and Richard Loving Photo ban on interracial marriages
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The Ban on interracial marriage.ย During the seventeenth and early eighteenth century;

the growing number of interracial marriages (also known as miscegenation) between Blacks and whites led to the passage of this new law.

The first anti-miscegenation lawenacted was in the colony of Maryland in 1664 and additional colonies quickly followed suit.

These marriages were prohibited and penalties included the enslavement, exile or imprisonment of the white perpetrators.

These laws grew and evolved over the years and attempts were even made to modify the Constitution to ban interracial marriage in all states.

It would take three hundred years for this law to be overturned.

In 1967, Richard Loving, a white man, and Mildred Jeter, a Black woman, were married in the District of Columbia.

Mildred and Richard Loving had been married just a few weeks when, in the early morning hours of July 11, 1958, Sheriff Garnett Brooks ;

and two deputies, acting on an anonymous tip that the Lovings were in violation of Virginia law, stormed into the couple’s bedroom.

When the sheriff demanded to know who Mildred was to Richard, she offered up the answer: “I’m his wife.”

When Richard gestured to the couple’s marriage certificate hanging on the wall, the sheriff coldly stated the document held no power in their locale.

Virginia law in fact forbade black and white citizens from marrying outside of the state and then returning to live within the state.ย 

Richard ended up spending a night in jail, with the pregnant Mildred spending several more nights there. The couple eventually pleaded guilty to violating the Virginia law.

The commonwealth of Virginiaโ€ฆ

Asserted that its ban on interracial marriages were in place to avoid a host of resulting sociological ills, and that the law was not in violation of the Fourteenth Amendment.ย 

On June 12, 1967, the high court agreed unanimously in favor of the Lovings, striking down Virginia’s law.

And thus allowing the couple to return home while also ending the ban on interracial marriages in other states.

The court held that Virginiaโ€™s anti-miscegenation statute violated both the Equal Protection Clause and the Due Process Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment.ย 

Chief Justice Earl Warrenย wrote the opinion for the court, stating marriage is a basic civil right and to deny this right on a basis of race is โ€œdirectly subversive of the principle of equality;

At the heart of the Fourteenth Amendmentโ€ and deprives all citizens โ€œliberty without due process of law.โ€

Conclusion

The ban on interracial marriage was a law that reflected America’s history of racial discrimination.

Most states outlawed interracial marriage until the 1960s when the Supreme Court ruled them unconstitutional.

 

Thanks for Reading

 

โ€”Biography.com Editor

habits

HABITSโ€ฆIt’s a matter of NEGATIVE-VS- POSITIVE!

 

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Old habits will never open new doors. Quote. Quotes.

Habitsโ€ฆSimply putโ€”I’m imperfect, I have inadequacies, I’ve messed up, and I have experienced being dejected, butโ€” guess what?

In factโ€”I am CANDIDโ€”free from โ€”prejudice, malice and bias; what is moreโ€”I am sincere, honest, and very frank about the thing that truly matters in my life.

I learned that it is all about your thinking pattern; positively or negatively, all these things make you a better human being.ย 

Negative habits prevent positive results!

Negative habits are like a virus that can quickly spread across your life, leaving behind only negativity.ย 

The good news? You have power over this! In just 30 days, you could be free from negative influences and on the path to creating positive impacts.

Despite all of the obstacles and roadblocks that I have encountered during my lifetime…I have also learned that having preconceived negative notions doesn’t help.

Besides, a preconceived notion is an opinion formed well before without sufficient information.

Also, having a preconceived notion often involves forming an opinion in advance on any matter.

Ultimately you will alter your view of things; Preconceived notions act as hindrances, blocking our view of things. Believe it or not…

Positive habits for positive impacts!

Your self-talk is a stream of unspoken thoughts that run through your head. Some come from logic and reason, while others arise out of the misinformation you hold about yourself or life’s less pleasant situations;ย 

However, there are ways to talk back into full control over what goes on in our minds – whether it’s negative thinking or worrying too much.

Self-talk is the endless stream of unspoken thoughts that run through your head; some come from logic and reason, and others arise from misconceptions.ย 

Generally speaking, positive thinking doesn’t mean that you have to ignore life’s less pleasant situations.ย 

It means thinking that the best will happen instead of the worst, positively and productively approaching the unpleasantness.ย 

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From Bad to new habits concept

How to break your negative habits

We all know that it’s important to have a positive outlook on life, but did you know that your disposition could be the difference between success and failure?ย 

According to a study published in the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, success is more likely to follow people with a positive attitude.ย 

One way to kick bad habits is to actively replace unhealthy routines with new, healthy ones.ย 

Some people find they can replace a bad habit, even drug addiction, with another behavior, like exercising.

Do you want to be happy? Then you have to start forming good habits. On the other hand, if you have negative habits, it’s time to get rid of them. It’s really that simple!

It can be hard to break bad habits and replace them with good ones, but it’s worth it!ย 

In other wordsโ€”positivity mattersโ€”don’t you think so?

Conclusion

ย Candid people have embraced their imperfections and see them as a part of who they are. They don’t try to hide their mistakes or pretend to be someone they’re not.ย 

Because candid people are genuine and authentic, others are drawn to them. And this is what makes candid people successfulโ€”not because they’re perfect, but because they’re real.

ย Candid thoughts and emotions make us better people. We should be sincere, honest, and frank with ourselves and others because it allows for growth in relationships and strengthens our character.ย 

Negative thinking patterns keep us from being our best selves, while positive thinking patterns help us grow into the people we want to be.ย 

Which kind of thinker are you?

Thanks for reading

 

Negative Thoughts…BRAIN POWER Mindset2!

https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/stress-management/in-depth/positive-thinking/art-20043950

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Do We Have a ThrowAway Society? And Why You Should Care?

Stop using plastic – Compressed plastic water bottles

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Do we have a throwaway society? I mean, sure, sometimes it seems like we do. But is that really how things are?

When we think of the modern world, we tend to picture it as something new, something different.ย 

We tend to think that our society is better than the ones before it. But is it? This post will talk about throwaway society and why you should care about it.ย 

Throwaway culture is one where we as a society have become accustomed to discarding things, and discarding is seen as the norm.ย 

The resources that we have at our disposal might seem limitless, but we don’t realize that these resources are finite.ย 

Throwaway culture is one where we as a society have become accustomed to discarding things, and discarding is seen as the norm.ย 

The resources that we have at our disposal might seem limitless, but we don’t realize that these resources are finite.ย 

In a fast-paced, always-changing world, we are forced to make fast decisions and quick decisions that we don’t think twice about.ย 

We discard items without thinking, without questioning if we can truly get something useful out of them. Even if these items don’t seem important at the time, they will have a major impact on us in the future.

What is a “Throwaway” Item?

A throwaway item is something that we use for a short period and then throw it away. Anything from a plastic water bottle to a pair of running shoes can be considered a “throwaway” item.ย 

These items are usually not recycled because of a lack of awareness and infrastructure. Some countries have taken steps toward banning single-use plastics, but this is not the case for most other countries.

ย A throwaway item is something that we use for a short period and then throw it away. Anything from a plastic water bottle to a pair of running shoes can be considered a “throwaway” item.ย 

These items are usually not recycled because of a lack of awareness and infrastructure. Some countries have taken steps toward banning single-use plastics, but this is not the case for most other countries.

The Scenario

You are on vacation and decide to go scuba diving. While diving, you realize that you forgot your water bottle. You don’t think much of it and decide to keep the water bottle.ย 

A few days later, you find out that this bottle was contaminated with toxic gas, and you have been poisoned.ย 

You have been poisoned not just because of the water you drank but also because of the plastic bottle during the dive.

ย In this case, the toxic water bottle is a throwaway item that had a life-threatening impact on you.ย 

The toxic water bottle was only used for a short period, but it could not be safely disposed of because of its toxic nature.

Why is a Throwaway Society Bad?

One of the biggest issues with a throwaway society is that we are simply unsure of what we can get practical use out of a certain item.ย 

But that is the beauty of our modern society. We are constantly challenged to use our minds and think outside of the box, and most of the time, we succeed in doing so.

Why Is It a Problem?

Plastic pollution has become a big issue in recent years, but what are the other problems with a throwaway society?ย 

First, the issue of natural resource scarcity is a serious problem. When we use plastic water bottles or bags, we use up natural resources that could have been used for other purposes.ย 

The plastic pollution problem is a serious concern, but other issues with a throwaway society are also. One of these issues is that throwaway items are not always recyclable.ย 

When we throw away items that cannot be recycled, we throw them away. When people discard things that they cannot safely get rid of, they are just throwing them away, which is not positive.

The Conclusion

The modern world is a mix of new and old. It has brought us many advantages, such as the advancement of technology and that we can now travel to new places quickly.ย 

It has also brought us some issues, such as the throwaway society. We as individuals need to address this issue because the consequences could be grave. Apart from the fact that the world is getting smaller, we could also lose many of our cultural values.ย 

We could have a society where people are unconcerned with the environment and people’s health.ย 

We need to make people aware of the potential dangers of discarding items to address this issue. To do so, people need to understand what a “throwaway” item is properly.

Mean And Hateful Peopleโ€ฆWhat To Do!

Mean and hateful peopleMean and hateful peopleโ€ฆIt can be hard to deal with them. You might have had a bad day, you might have had a long week, or maybe you just donโ€™t have the energy to deal with them. However, when you make an effort to deal with them in the right way, the situation could actually improve. No one deserves to be treated poorly because of their words and actions. Here are some ways that will help you deal with mean and hateful people:

1) Donโ€™t take it personally.

2) Step back and give yourself time to process the situation.

3) Try not to engage in any negative conversations with them.

4) Keep your emotions in check and avoid losing your temper.

5) Donโ€™t allow them to control your mood or ruin your day.

Try not to take it personally.

It can be hard to deal with mean people. You might have had a bad day, you might have had a long week, or maybe you just donโ€™t have the energy to deal with them. However, when you make an effort to deal with them in the right way, the situation could actually improve. No one deserves to be treated poorly because of their words and actions. Here are some ways that will help you deal with mean and hateful people:

Step back and give yourself time to process the situation.

It is usually a good idea to step back and give yourself time to process the situation. If you can, try to put as much space between you and the person as possible. If you are going to be facing him or her again soon, try to prepare for it in advance. Get your thoughts together and practice some positive affirmations that will help you stay calm. Remember, no one deserves to be treated poorly because of their words and actions.

Try not to engage in any negative conversations with them.

This is a good rule of thumb when dealing with anyone, not just mean and hateful people. You want to avoid letting them get under your skin and try to control how you’re feeling. Letting someone else affect your mood can be really draining and no one deserves that. It’s important not to engage in any negative conversation with the person you’re talking about. If they start trying to push your buttons or say something that’s rude or insensitive, then just try to disengage from the situation. This way you won’t become upset or let them have power over you which can be done by getting into an argument with them, which they might enjoy more than anything else.

Keep your emotions in check and avoid losing your temper.

One of the most important things to remember is to keep your emotions in check and avoid losing your temper. Sometimes, people are rude or hateful because theyโ€™re hurting inside. It might be hard for you to get past the mean words, but try not to get angry or lash out. Use this situation as an opportunity to remember why you do what you do. Remember that there are people who need your help and care, even if one person isnโ€™t receptive.

Donโ€™t allow them to control your mood or ruin your day.

One of the worst things that can happen is allowing these people to control your mood or ruin your day. If youโ€™re having a bad day, what better way to make it worse than dealing with these types of people who are only looking for someone to put down?

It will be hard not to take them personally. You might think that they are hating on you personally, but usually these type of people are just hateful by nature. They will say all sorts of things about other people, but it doesnโ€™t mean they are talking about you.

Conclusion

“Don`t let negative and toxic people rent space in your head. Raise the rent and kick them out!” – Robert Tew ย Read more

Itโ€™s hard to deal with mean and hateful people. They say and do things that we might not always want to hear. But, there are things we can do to protect ourselves and still feel good about ourselves in the process.

We donโ€™t have to respond to their negativity or give them the satisfaction of knowing theyโ€™ve gotten to us. There is a lot of power in knowing that we donโ€™t have to take on the responsibility of their feelings and we donโ€™t have to allow them to control our mood.

Itโ€™s not easy, but we owe it to ourselves and our mental health to take care of ourselves in the face of their repulsive behavior.

JUST BE YOURSELF!

 

7 Mesmerizing Examples Of Bullshit

BullshitThe art and technique of Bullshit

Bullshit is a term that’s been around for centuries, and politicians love to use it. But what exactly is Bullshit? This blog post will explore the definition of Bullshit.

So you’re probably wondering: What does “bullshit” mean? Bullsh*t can refer to anything that’s nonsense or is untrue;. Mistakes are made by people who lie just because they think they know better than anyone else.ย 

In like manner, things are said as part of a political campaign without any actual evidence to back them up.ย 

Meantime, this word has nothing to do with lying at all – sometimes, we call something “bullshit” when we don’t really care about it one way or another.ย 

BullshitHowever, that is not the case for the event on January 6th; those insidious bumbling idiots knew they were spreading catastrophe bullshit which incited gullible buffoons to cripple an election.

What’s more,, Bullshit is also a term coined by philosopher Harry G. Frankfurt who defines Bullshit as an act or instance of talking without knowing what you’re talking about. (See below excerpts from the essay)

Additionally, The Oxford English Dictionary lists the first usage of the word (bulls hit), early 20th century: from bull ‘stupid or nonsense talk’ + shit.

ย Because of this…Bullshitters are often Bullshitseen as liars or people who are trying to deceive you for their own gain – but the truth is, they might not be lying at all.ย 

Simply put…Bullshitters are frequently full of shit.ย 

That being the case…they could just be telling you something they think is true without knowing if it actually holds any water or not.ย 

Next time someone tries to tell you a story with little or no truth, just remember they are communicating their version of the facts.ย 

In technical terms, this is known as “bullshit.”

communications that result from no concern for truth, evidence and/or established semantic, logical, systemic, or empirical knowledge.”

ย Bullshit is everywhere, so we must always be vigilant to spot it, call it out, and avoid getting caught up in it ourselves. There is so much of it in today’s world.

Some of today’s Bullshit is just scandalous; for example, this headline from Washington Post:

Nearly 4 in 10 who say the election was stolen from Trump say violence might be needed to save America.ย 

The 4 in 10 people who believe the Bullshit of a stolen election is lunatics with terrorist ideas.

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