Author: JusMee

I am Essie, a woman defined by resilience, clarity, and lived experience. I lead with intention, speak with purpose, and move through life with a grounded sense of self. My journey has shaped me into someone who values autonomy, respect, and understanding before action. Whether I’m building, creating, or guiding, I bring honesty, strength, and a commitment to growth. I stand firm in who I am—and I expect the world to meet me there.
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Politicians: Idiots or Cowards?

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Politicians: Idiots or Cowards?

Politicians: Idiots or Cowards? In my opinion, it’s a little bit of both. I get so frustrated with them sometimes. They make decisions that affect my life and then have the audacity to act like they don’t know what they’re doing. 

But then again, maybe they’re just cowardly. Afraid to make tough decisions because they might anger someone or lose support in the next election. 

Anyway, I’m not sure there’s a clear answer, but after watching the news and seeing what goes on in government, it’s hard to come up with any other explanation. 

Every day seems to bring some new debacle or embarrassing display, and it’s hard to believe that anyone with an ounce of common sense could be responsible for all this nonsense.

 But maybe it’s not that they’re idiots – they’re just too scared to make any decisions. Maybe they’re so worried about what their opponents say that they can’t think straight. 

Or maybe they’re afraid of having to do something useful. Whatever the reason, it doesn’t look like things will get much better soon. 

In the meantime… if you’re looking for someone to blame for the world’s problems, don’t look at the politicians – look at yourself. After all, we’re the ones who keep voting them into office.

What do you think? Are politicians idiots or cowards? Or maybe a little bit of both? Let me know in the comments!

Politicians: Idiots or Cowards? Decisions they make…

Damn…I mean, how idiotic do you have to be not to realize that cutting education funding will have a negative impact on society? 

The cuts are so deep, and education is not alone on the chopping block! 

No Backbone…

And then there are the cowards who refuse to take a stand on anything because they’re afraid of losing votes. 

It’s all nonsense. Sometimes I wish they would all disappear, and we could start fresh with a new batch of leaders who care about the people they’re supposed to represent.

Liar, Liar, Your Pants on Fire!

I’m sure you’ve all had the experience of being stuck in a room with a politician. They talk, talk, and talk but never seem to say anything of substance. 

 Instead, they spout empty platitudes and make grandiose promises they do not intend to keep. 

 It’s enough to make you want to tear your hair out. In my opinion, politicians are idiots. However, the biggest idiots are those who vote for a ###political idiot.

The Cowards to scared to do the right thing!

They’re too afraid to stand up for their beliefs, lest they offend someone. They would rather pander to special interests and play it safe than risk taking a stand on an issue. 

As a result, our government is gridlocked, and nothing ever gets done. I’m not saying that all politicians are bad people. But I am saying the system is broken and needs to be fixed. 

In conclusion…

Idiots or cowards? That’s the question I find myself asking about politicians more and more these days. 

On the one hand, they seem like idiots because they make decisions that affect my life and then act like they don’t know what they’re doing.

 Then, on the other hand, they seem like cowards because they’re too afraid to stand up to special interests and do what’s right for the country. 

Sometimes I wonder if they’re just a bunch of idiots pretending to be cowards or a bunch of cowards and then to be idiots. 

Either way, I’m getting pretty tired of their nonsense. What about you? Let me know in the comments below! Like, comment, subscribe

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https://www.politico.com/magazine/story/2014/10/how-to-talk-like-a-politician-111841/

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Dogs bark, cats meow, and roosters crow…What’s the Meaning?

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Dogs 🐶 bark, cats 🐈‍⬛ meow, and roosters 🐓 crow, right? It’s almost second nature to assign meaning to the noises animals make. 

But what do they mean when they make those noises? Cats 🐈 don’t meow — they are silent until they reach maturity and begin to produce sounds. 

Roosters 🐔 crowing at sunrise is part of their mating call. When dogs 🐩 bark, what do they say? What does a cat meow mean? 

And if you hear a rooster crowing in the morning? There are many theories about these sounds and why animals use them as vocalizations. 

Here I’ll dive into the meanings behind common animal sounds…

What Do Dogs Say When They Bark?

Needless to say, I’ll say it anyway…I have never been a lover of any animal; why? FEAR!

 That’s to say, some dogs 🐕 are vicious looking, while others are playful…don’t matter either way; I’m not going to put my ass in place so a dog can take a bite!

Anywho, dogs bark for various reasons, including alerting the owners of a perceived threat, being territorial, or for play. 

Although, dog barking can be beneficial, especially if a dog is used for protection. Having a dog that barks when someone gets too close to your property can be a great way to deter criminals.

 The dogs’ bark warns the trespassers to get the hell off this property! You are not welcome here! So, get to stepping! B’fore I go on the offense! Cause you know damn well you don’t live here!

Also, dogs bark when excited, such as when reunited with their owners after a long trip away; that is to say, it’s about time you get home. (I missed y’all !)

 In the wild, barking is used to warn other animals of your presence and to scare away predators. When a dog barks in a house, it is generally to get the attention of humans, but the reason why, who knows!

What Do Cats Mean When They Meow?

Dog barking

 Cats can be very territorial, and their owners are seen as their property. 

Cats use meowing to mark their territory and let other cats know that their humans are their property and their owners know what they want. 

For example, a cat that wants to be let outside or fed often lets its owner know by meowing.

 Cats can sometimes produce a clicking noise, which can signify aggression. Which is why…I don’t care to be in the presence of a cat! (They can scratch your eyes out!)

What Does aDog barking Crow Mean?

The most important reason a rooster will crow is to say so that you know; I am here. Therefore, don’t even think about invading my space. Announcing their presence loud and clear to anyone or roosters within earshot. 

Still another well-known reason why a rooster 🐓 crows is the early morning call. Roosters will start to crow before sunrise;

 The early morning call encourages you to get out of bed, move, and start your day. (By the way, you know you must be in the country to enjoy this luxury!) Right?

City folks aren’t allowed …no 🐔  allowed.

Conclusion

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These are just a few examples of the many sounds that animals make. From the dog to the cat to the rooster, you might be surprised at how many animals you can understand with a little research into their language! 

Dogs bark for various reasons, including alerting the owners of a perceived threat, being territorial, or for play. Cats use meowing to show affection towards their humans and to get what they want. Roosters crow to let hens know they are looking for a mate.

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https://www.chickensandmore.com/rooster-crowing/

https://www.lonetreevet.com/blog/dog-barks-decoded-meaning-sounds-dogs-make/#:~:text=Barking%20%E2%80%93%20A%20dog%20may%20bark,a%20repetitive%20high%2Dpitched%20tone.

https://www.akc.org/expert-advice/lifestyle/learn-speak-dog-meaning-dogs-barks/

https://weareallaboutcats.com/5-common-cat-noises-and-what-they-mean/

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Why Is It So Hard to Admit You’re Wrong?

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Why Is It So Hard

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‍Why is it so hard to admit you’re wrong? Of course, admitting a mistake feels like an admission of defeat, but this isn’t always true. 

As a matter of fact, there are many implications and consequences that come with mistakes – which makes admitting them difficult for some people that want the easy way out; 

Or don’t have enough faith in themselves ́to be able to do something independently without help from others’ expectations (or lack thereof). 

It takes courage and confidence-building practices such as self-reflection before we even consider owning up when things go awry!

Then again, some people know it all, have done it all, and don’t dare admit to being wrong. Why? Because it makes them look like they don’t know what the hell they’re talking about, and it takes away some power. 

In other words, people can see through your facade, pushing you back a little, making you weak and less intelligent than you would like to appear, which is a big deal for you. 

But…why is it so hard to admit you’re wrong?

Why is it so hard

 

Sometimes it’s just in our nature!

Generally speaking, nobody is perfect, and humility is a good thing. However, sometimes this can become a bit of a crutch. 

You know you don’t have to be the best at everything or always be right; everyone makes mistakes and has to own up to those mistakes. 

Moreover, you can’t let humility get in the way of being honest with yourself and others. There are plenty of situations where you should be humble and recognize your imperfections. 

In fact, being wrong is attached to our sense of self; our pride comes out, and we do everything possible not to admit being wrong.

And when you admit you’re not perfect, it takes away from your identity, and you feel threatened.

For real, tho, you will make mistakes, so don’t fight to be right when you know you are wrong…in the long run, it creates a major problem.

It has serious implications for the ego.

Needless to say, there are situations where someone’s ego is on the line. For instance, I’m writing about why it is so hard to admit to being wrong.

 So, I’m sharing my opinion, which indicates I know what I’m talking about. So, It seems like I have the answers and have done my research. (And I have) but If I’m wrong, it shatters that facade. 

Most importantly, it shatters the image created; it’s like taking a bucket of water and pouring it on the fire I created. 

In essence, I don’t want the flames to be put out; also, I want the flames to be as big and impressive as possible.

Nobody wants to hear that they’re wrong.

 Most people may not want to hear that they’re wrong; what they want to hear is that you think they’re right and agree with them. 

Likewise, they want to feel right and know that they are right. To that end, no matter what you say, they will disagree with you. 

Conclusion

A reasonable person will understand that it’s important to remember nobody is perfect. And that we all make mistakes, and no one is above needing to admit they’re wrong.

It’s okay to make mistakes and admit that you’re wrong. Those things don’t make you less of a person. Instead, those things make us human.

Why is it so hard to admit you’re wrong? It has serious implications for our ego. It can lead to more shame and guilt. Nobody wants to hear that they’re wrong.

 The bottom line is…we all make mistakes, and admitting those mistakes is how we learn and grow as individuals. 

Thanks for Reading!

https://www.happify.com/hd/the-unexpected-benefits-of-being-able-to-admit-you-are-wrong/#:~:text=Research%20shows%20that%20intellectual%20humility,curious%2C%20thoughtful%2C%20and%20happy.

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Just be yourself: the benefits of being you!

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Just be yourself

In a world where everyone is trying to be someone else, it can be hard to remember that the best thing you can do is just be yourself. But there are a lot of benefits to being yourself! Here are just a few of them.

You’ll Spend Less Time Worrying About What Other People Think!

You’ll spend less time worrying about what other people think of you. This is great news because you’ll have more time to focus on important things, like your career, family, and hobbies.

In the long run, it’s not that you won’t care what others think of you; you’ll know that their opinions don’t define you. 

Because you’ll be confident in yourself and your abilities, as well as, you’ll be able to brush off the haters easily.

So go out there and live your life the way you want to. Don’t worry about what others think because, in the end, it doesn’t matter.

Just be yourself…You’ll Be More Productive!

Most importantly, there’s no magic secret to being productive. However, you can do a few things to set yourself up for success. 

Here are a few tips to help you be more productive in your work:

1. Get organized

2. Set realistic goals

3. Take breaks

4. eliminate distractions

5. Find a work buddy

Maybe if you follow these tips, you might be well on your way to being more productive in your work. And who knows, maybe you’ll even achieve that elusive work-life balance.

You’ll Be Healthier

Who doesn’t want to be healthier? We all know that we should eat healthily and exercise regularly, but sometimes it’s hard to find the motivation to do so. 

However, you may not be aware of some benefits of being healthy. Here are a few reasons why you should make being healthy a priority:

1. You’ll have more energy.

2. You’ll be able to think more clearly.

3. You’ll be less likely to get sick.

4. You’ll be better able to handle stress.

5. You’ll live longer.

So there you have it! Being healthy isn’t just good for your body, mind, and overall wellbeing. So make an effort to eat right and exercise regularly, and you’ll be on your way to a healthier, happier life.

 Just be yourself…You’ll Make Better Decisions!

Sometimes, making decisions can be tough. But did you know that you can make better decisions using your gut instinct? 

That’s right – your gut can help you make better decisions. Of course, there are times when you should trust your gut.

 For example, if you’re considering whether or not to eat that questionable piece of sushi, your gut is probably telling you to steer clear. 

But there are other times when your gut can help you make a better decision.

For instance, if you’re trying to decide whether or not to take a new job, your gut can help you weigh the pros and cons and make the best decision for you. 

So the next time you feel stuck, don’t be afraid to listen to your gut – it might just help you make the best decision you’ve ever made.

You’ll Be More Resilient…Just be yourself!

If you want to be more resilient, you can do a few things:

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Rubber Bands

  1.  Thinking of yourself as a rubber band. The more you stretch yourself, the more resilient you’ll become.
  2. Be like a tree. Trees bend in the wind, but they don’t break. They have a strong root system that helps them stay strong in adversity.

    3. Surround yourself with positive people. They can help you see the silver lining in every cloud.

    4. Try to be like a cat. Cats always land on their feet, no matter what. They’re graceful and resilient and always seem to land on their feet.

So if you want to be more resilient, try to think of yourself as a rubber band, a tree, a cat, or a positive person. 

To wrap things up

There are plenty of benefits to being yourself. You don’t have to keep up a pretense 24/7 – you can relax and be yourself without worrying about what others think.

 Being yourself also allows you to be genuine in your interactions with others, which can build stronger relationships.

 And finally, self-acceptance is key to happiness, so by being yourself, you can learn to love and accept yourself just as you are.

So go ahead and be yourself – it’s good for you and the world. We could all use a little more authenticity in our lives.

Just Be yourself…

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The Wondrous You Running Away!

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The Wondrous You

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The wondrous you… don’t want to deal with your problems, so you run away from them instead. While you get a lot of validation from your friends for doing so, it doesn’t make things any easier. 

In fact, it just makes things harder in the long run. In most cases, you often feel like running away whenever you are confronted with a problem…but why?

 Are you afraid of how it might change your life or what others might think about you if they discover it? 

But in doing that, you neglect the fact that there is always a solution to every problem, and running away never solves anything.

Meanwhile, running away seems like a quick fix, but you can’t run away from the problems forever. 

Anywho…Why Do You Run Away From Your Problems Anyway?

Running away is easy for most people, but in the end, you realize that they can’t run away from the problems forever. Why?

Instead of accepting them and trying to fix them, you choose to ignore them and hope that they go away. 

Last but not least, you run away from your problems when you get your ass in a sling…to avoid facing the challenging aspects of life.

 That is to say. You want your life to be a bed of roses that is always nice and easy. You run for the hills when a challenge pops up and hope it goes away.

You might be able to fool yourself for a little while by pretending that everything is okay, but the problems will not go away on their own.

 In other words, you run away to avoid taking responsibility and own up to your colossal decisions.

In any case, here is some advice from a professional…

Leaving may be more comfortable, but staying put is where real growth happens. 

Here are a few reasons to stop avoidance behavior:

  • Problems eventually catch up to you, and you’ll find yourself running into the same or similar situations.
  • It doesn’t teach you to grow or better yourself.
  • Facing problems teaches you perseverance, resilience, and strength.
  • You’ll gain a sense of pride and independence.

https://taylorcounselinggroup.com/blog/running-away-from-problems/

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Silhouette of a young girl running along the beach of the sea during an amazing sunset

How Running Away Makes Your Problems Worse?

The wondrous you, can’t handle your problems? Fine. Run away then! You’ll feel so much better when there is no struggle at all;

It’s as though we are programming ourselves to fail whenever things get tough because if they don’t happen in one go, how will I know what works best for me? 

You might think running away from your problems will make them disappear for good. But they will keep following you, no matter where your head is!

Be that as it may, they only come back with a vengeance when you run from your problems. What goes on around eventually comes right around to hit you where it hurts the most- in this case, literally!

The most important thing about dealing with problems is that they need to go away and how you deal with them…

The Importance Of Confronting Your problems!

To that end, you cannot run fast enough or hide for long…so confront the problems head-on.

Simply put…the moment you stop running away from your problems… is the same moment they start to diminish. 

3 Ways To Stop Running And Face Your

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Problems

Moreover, it takes strength and courage to end the cycle of running away and facing the problems you’re most afraid of.

Here is some advice to assist you in the process of stopping making tracks:

  • Stop being chicken-hearted: you must decide to stand up to your fears.
  • Gladly accept discomfort: many things in life are worth some discomfort. (Means take responsibility and own your self-made issues.)
  • Seek support and insight from others who have walked down the road you are walking down.

You have to take the first step towards solving your problems because they ain’t gonna solve themselves.

The wondrous you…Conclusion

By and large, there is nothing worse than running away from your problems, but there is also nothing better than confronting them head-on. 

In reality, problems are inevitable, and it is impossible to live a life without them, so you might as well learn how to confront them. 

Despite what you might think, running away doesn’t make your problems disappear but makes them worse. 

Let me clarify…confronting your fears and problems is the only way to solve them.

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