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Deal With Rumor Monger( Losing Your Cool!)

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Deal With Rumor Makers

We all know that one person. The one who can never take responsibility for their own mistakes and always finds a way to blame someone else. They’re the rumor makers of the group, and they’re always stirring up trouble. 

But what makes them that way? Why can’t they own up to their own mistakes? Turns out, it’s not their fault…well, at least not entirely. Read more to find out why!

What is a Rumor Monger?

A rumor-monger spreads gossip and rumors about other people while pretending that they are facts. They don’t seem to care how disconcerting, misleading, and hurtful their words may be. 

For example…

Washington (CNN) Since the FBI seized classified and top secret documents from Donald Trump’s Mar-a-Lago resort, the former President and his allies have claimed that Trump had a “standing order” to declassify documents he took from the Oval Office to the White House residence. 

But 18 former top Trump administration officials tell CNN they never heard any such order issued during their time working for Trump and that they believe the claim to be patently false. 

Several officials laughed at the notion. One senior administration official called it “bullsh*t.” Two of Trump’s former chiefs of staff went on the record to knock down the claim. 

“Nothing approaching an order that foolish was ever given,” said John Kelly, who served as Trump’s chief of staff for 17 months from 2017 to 2019. 

“And I can’t imagine anyone that worked at the White House after me that would have simply shrugged their shoulders and allowed that order to go forward without dying in the ditch trying to stop it.”

They want to cause drama and disunity…(AKA Donald Trump). He is a rumor-monger who is very much aware of what he is doing; he wants to stir up some trouble in other lives by dragging other people into his drama and attempting to overshadow the mess he created. 

So, if you  deal with a rumor-monger, you want to stay away from them as much as possible because you don’t want to be dragged into their drama and lies. 

Don’t Take It Personally!Deal With Rumor Makers

The best thing to do when dealing with a rumor-monger is not to take it personally. Rumor-mongering is about the rumor-monger, not you. 

They are trying to get attention for themselves and don’t care who they hurt or what damage they cause. Most people who spread gossip and rumors have issues with low self-esteem and a lack of confidence in themselves. 

In some cases, they may even have some mental health issues. You may want to consider this when dealing with a rumor-monger.

 Don’t allow their lies to affect you so deeply that they affect your health. Keep in mind that you can’t control what others say about you. It’s normal to hear rumors about you and other people. What’s important is how you deal with them. (Consider the source.)

3 Strategies To Deal with Rumor-Monger!

– Ignore them – The best way to deal with a rumor-monger is often to ignore them. If they are spreading lies about you, there’s not much you can do to stop them. 

However, you can choose not to engage with them and stay away from them as much as possible.

 – Be proactive – If you notice someone spreading rumors about you, it’s best to be proactive and address them as quickly as possible. You don’t want others to believe these lies and think negatively about you. 

Before confronting a rumor-monger, ensure you have all the facts and are prepared for the conversation. 

– Be there for others – If you see someone being bullied by a rumor-monger, be there for them. Show them that you care and don’t believe the lies spread about them. This can help the person who is being bullied feel less alone in the situation.

2 Tips to Help You Stay Calm When Dealing With Rumors!

– Breathe – When you feel overwhelmed, it can be easy to let emotions get the best of you. In these situations, taking deep breaths and trying to stay calm can be helpful. – Surround yourself with people who support you – Also, it can be really helpful to surround yourself with people who support you and care about you. They can help you stay grounded in the situation and keep things in perspective.

Conclusion

After reading this article, I hope you better understand what a rumor-monger is, how to deal with them, and how to keep your cool when dealing with rumors. 

You don’t want gossip and lies to ruin your day or friendships, so keep gossip away from you. 

Remember that rumors are not facts and shouldn’t affect how you feel about yourself. You can deal with it healthily if someone is spreading rumors about you.

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Disgraced President: Never Deserved It !

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Disgraced…When President Trump was elected, many people were shocked. How could someone with little experience and so many controversies surrounding him become the leader of the free world?

DISGRACED

Moreover, it’s hard to believe that it’s been almost four years since Donald Trump left the Oval Office as President.

 Yet, it feels like he was insulting our intelligence only yesterday, telling us that he would make America great again, and promising to drain the swamp.

 And now, here we are. Trump is gone, and we are left a more divided country than ever.

Nonetheless, it’s clear that Trump was never fit to be President, and his election was a disaster for the United States. 

In this blog post, I’ll explore how President Trump was a disgrace to the office of the presidency.  

How everything went wrong…

Generally speaking, from the beginning, Donald Trump’s presidential campaign was marred by scandal and controversy. 

From his remarks about Mexicans and Muslims to his boastful statements about sexual assault, Trump seemed to be constantly in the news for all the wrong reasons. 

And as the campaign progressed, things only got worse. Trump was caught on tape making lewd comments about women and accused of corruption and conflicts of interest.

How Trump ruined America! 

First and foremost, it’s hard to imagine how things could have gone any worse under Trump.

Almost as soon as he took office, Trump started to ruin America. He began by signing Executive Orders that took away people’s rights and protections.

 Meanwhile, he began gutting environmental regulations and policies that had been put in place to protect the planet. 

 Last, Trump also began dismantling the Affordable Care Act, which had provided millions of Americans with access to quality healthcare. 

 Ultimately, in just two short years… 

  • He managed to alienate our allies, 
  • increase tensions with our adversaries, 
  • And roll back progress on key issues like climate change and environmental protection. 
  • In May 2018, disbanded, The NSC directorate pandemic response team…
  • The top White House official responsible for leading the U.S. response in the event of a deadly pandemic has left the administration, and the global health security team he oversaw has been disbanded,” reported the Washington Post at the time.
  •  Trump and his allies — including then-NSC director John Bolton, who undertook the ill-fated move — have since tried to muddy the waters about these moves, emphasizing the fact that they merely reorganized the National Security Council rather than bluntly firing everybody involved in the pandemic response
  • On the last full day of Donald Trump’s presidency, the death toll reached 400,000 — a once-unthinkable number. Over the past five weeks, more than 100,000 Americans have perished in the Pandemic.
  • Not to mention the constant stream of scandals and controversies that plagued his administration from the beginning.

How was Trump a terrible president?

When Donald Trump was elected as the 45th president of the United States, many people were hopeful that he would be a good leader. 

Unfortunately, Trump turned out to be a horrible president. 

He made racist and sexist remarks, lied to the American people, and was impeached; however, he should have been removed from office. 

Subsequently, Trump divided the country and has shown that he is not fit to be President. It’s hard to find any good things to say about Trump’s presidency. 

After all, he is a racist, a sexist, and a liar. He ruined relationships with key allies and made a mockery of the office he held. 

How was Trump a disgrace to the office?

Donald Trump will go down in history as one of the greatest disgraces to ever hold the office of President of the United States.

DISGRACED

Ultimately, Trump’s legacy will be bigotry, greed, and selfishness. 

He will be remembered as a man who cares for no one but himself, and his presidency will be remembered as one of the darkest times in history.

During his time in office, he did everything he could to disgrace the office of the presidency. 

He lied to the American people, obstructed justice, and showed no respect for the rule of law. 

And…he was impeached twice.

 Will Trump ever be forgotten? (No…for good reasons!)

When it comes to Donald Trump, history will not be kind. To illustrate, he will be remembered…

  • As a racist, a sexist, and a liar.
  • For his divisiveness
  • and contempt for the rule of law.
  • He will be remembered for his destruction of American democracy.
  •  
  • And that’s just the start. Trump will also be remembered for his complete and utter failure as President.
  • He will be remembered for the millions of Americans who lost their health insurance under his watch.
  • Also, he will be remembered for the families separated at the border.
  • He will be remembered for the corruption and the scandals.
  • And the death toll from the Pandemic.

In short, Donald Trump will be remembered as one of the worst Presidents in American history. 

And that’s something that he will never be able to escape.

Trump’s policy failures…

Donald Trump’s policies have been an abject failure…from the Muslim ban to the repeal of DACA.

 Trump has shown time and time again that he is not fit to lead this country. His policies have made us less safe, less free, and less prosperous. He is gone and should never be able to return.

Trump’s many scandals.

There’s no shortage of Trump scandals these days, whether it’s his involvement with Russia, his taxes, The January 6 insurrection, or his sexual assault allegations. 

The list goes on and on!

Trump is a racist…

There is no denying that Donald Trump is a racist. He has repeatedly made derogatory and discriminatory remarks about minorities, from Mexicans to Muslims to African Americans. 

Trump is a sexist.

Trump is a sexist. We all watched the tape where it was bragging about groping women, accused of sexual assault by many women, and has a long history of making sexist comments about women. 

Trump is not a man who should be anywhere near the White House.

Trump is a liar.

Ironically, no one can deny that Donald Trump is a liar. He has lied about his involvement with Russia, his taxes, the size of his inauguration crowd, and his involvement with Stormy Daniels. 

In fact, according to The Washington Post, Trump lied or made false statements more than 10,000 times during his time in office.

Whether you agree with his policies or not, there’s no denying that Trump is a liar. And that’s not the kind of person we want in the White House.

Donald Trump is a traitor. 

He has betrayed his country by colluding with the Russians to influence the 2016 election.

 He is a traitor to the American people and should have been removed from office. Above all, he should be banned from holding any political office…(the President.)

In conclusion, 

The former Disgraced President never deserved to become President in the first place. He was elected due to a combination of lies, deceit, and manipulation, and he has brought nothing but shame and disgrace to the office. 

If we want to prevent this from happening again, we need to be more critical of the candidate we elect to become our leader. 

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Tips About A Cheater You Can’t Afford To Miss

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cheaterSome abuse is not physical. Abuse does not have to be physical. There’s emotional abuse, psychological abuse, and spiritual abuse. -Iyanla Vanzant

How do you know if your partner is a cheater? If you’re asking this question, you already suspect that you’re the victim of infidelity. The signs of cheating are not the same in all relationships.

 Sure, but there are some common behaviors you can look for. First and foremost,  If your gut tells you that your partner is cheating, more than likely they are.

How do I know? I am a victim of it. Here is what I did and said:

These are the things that come from you to me…

  1. You become hostile towards me regularly
  2. Without cause, you make nasty, derogatory remarks to me
  3. You are mentally abusive towards me
  4. Your need to please me and do things for me, in an attempt to make me to believe that you are not a liar and a serial cheater. Because you still do things for me
  5. Your words say I have not shtup other women, but your actions …the condoms and getting an STD to declare otherwise

This marriage and relationship are TOXIC, so to avoid further hostility, until you tell me the TRUTH...It would be best if you didn’t touch me; I refuse to give you the satisfaction of having sex with you ever again.

Finally, this is a dangerous, sick game my dear…be a man; I know for a fact that you have had sex many times with many, many sluts, whores, side pieces so STOP trying to turn your lies into truth. I know better.

Seriously,  If you want to fix one of the problems in this marriage, take a good look at yourself in the mirror, decide who you are…the lying deceitful cheater or a respectful man that truly love your wife and doesn’t play with her emotions.

Listen carefully…I expect to be treated with the respect I deserve, and if I am not the one you want …you should walk out of this marriage. Go on get far away from me…see you have gone too far.

SIMPLY PUT, I WANT MY FREEDOM to meet possibly a man that is more about honesty and respect, who will not go outside the relationship looking for a piece of ass.

Unfortunately,  I can’t do that if I am still unhappily chained to you. 

Sincerely your wife

 

Final thought:Read about cheaters

Cheating is the most selfish thing a person can do in a relationship! If you are not happy with the person you are with, then end it. It’s that simple

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Thinking About Lies? Reasons Why It’s Time To Stop!

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Think about this…some people will often tell lies.  For example, 50% of elected Politicians tell a lie at least once per day. 

Then again, some people lie so much to the point they began to believe the lies themselves. I can name people that can lie to you with a straight face.

Seemingly, some lies are often of less importance.

Yet, other lies can have more denigrating consequences, such as those told by a former US President over a lost election and criminal suspects about criminal charges pending. 

Consider far-right conspiracy theorist spreading garbage such as this 

“You know, we can look back in a time in history where people were told to wear a gold star,” Greene said as Brody, a right-wing commentator, nodded in sage agreement. “And they were definitely treated like second-class citizens — so much so that they were put in trains and taken to gas chambers in Nazi Germany, and this is exactly the type of abuse that Nancy Pelosi is talking about.”

 Despite the apparent generality of lie-telling within our society, lying is a complicated behavior that requires breaking the standard communication rules. 

Whenever a liar decides not to tell the truth and then assert an alternative statement that is plausible and appears informative to the listener while concealing any outward signs of nervousness, such a matter-of-fact feat requires thought processes in addition to those used when telling the truth. 

Liar intends to instill a false belief in another’s mind but is more interested in the cognitive processes associated with making a statement that is not true.  

 When someone tells the truth or constructs a falsehood, the processes will have some common aspects regardless of the situation. It takes time to become a master of lying and twisting the truth into the lie, which waters down the fact’s basic.

 Telling the truth is very difficult for a compulsive liar to do. While the need to suppress the truth is undeniably an essential component of why lying is more complex than telling the truth. 

 Therefore, the decision to lie is likely to require a cognitive process associated with lying that takes time to execute.  

Such as this

“The anti-democratic conspiracy theory [that Trump will be “reinstated” as president] has been bubbling up in fringe conservative media for several months. It has no basis under the Constitution or any legitimate legal framework. 

MyPillow CEO Mike Lindell has been a prominent proponent of the theory. The former Trump attorney Sidney Powell also floated the idea at a QAnon conference over the weekend.

The anticipation of a Trump reinstatement on a specific date could spread further among the most dedicated Trump supporters. The calls to help overturn the 2020 election on January 6, for example, gained steam through a pro-Trump bus tour by a fringe group and led to the insurrection at the Capitol.

 Lindell has said August is when he would go to the Supreme Court to present evidence he’s acquired that would be so convincing that the justices would be forced to reject the 2020 election result.

A podcast from the former Trump adviser Steve Bannon has amplified the conspiracy theory, as Lindell and others have gone on the show to promote it with minimal pushback.

The podcast is influential among GOP lawmakers hoping to avoid a primary challenge while seeking reelection. Trump’s lawyers and other Republicans filed dozens of lawsuits related to the election.

 

People tend to embrace information that supports their beliefs and rejects information that contradicts them. For instance, Liddell, Bannon, and Powell require more information to accept an undesirable idea than a desirable one.

After Thoughts

Choose your leaders
with wisdom and forethought.
To be led by a coward
is to be controlled
by all that the coward fears.
To be led by a fool
is to be led
by the opportunists
who control the fool.
To be led by a thief
is to offer up
your most precious treasures
to be stolen.
To be led by a liar
is to ask
to be told lies.
To be led by a tyrant
is to sell yourself
and those you love
into slavery.”
― Octavia E. Butler, Parable of the Talents

| Psychology Today. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/science-choice/201708/the-many-ways-we-lie-ourselves

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The insane, the stupid, and the lousy

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The insaneThe insane, the stupid, and the lousy weather destroy, spoiled,
by the so-called Conservative mindset.

Is aid to the poor a movement towards equality, or is it an inequitable burden for the middle and upper classes?

Does permission for abortion defend American women’s freedom, or does it promote the end of human life?


Or elected officials representatives of the people, or is it only for themselves? These and many other issues reflect a wide range of political attitudes that shape the way Americans participate in government and politics.


Are you a Liberal? What are you, Conservative?

Political labeling becomes unclear as to the boundaries between liberalism and conservatism fade. Some people think all in one category or the other.

The words “liberal” and “conservative” mean different things to different people, but they generally describe contrasting political ideologies, worldviews that reflect an individual’s values and ideas.

In general, a Liberal ideology favors the government’s power to regulate the economy and ensure fairness and equal opportunity.

For the most part, liberals believe that the government should do more to help minorities, the homeless, women, the elderly, and society’s “have-nots.” They also think that the government should provide foreign aid to countries in need.

Additionally, Liberals are generally supportive of a tax system that taxes the wealthy more than the poor, while the Conservatives care more about protecting their wealth by paying fewer taxes.

The Conservatives may have at some point in time believed in justice and equal opportunity for all.

However, today’s CONSERVATIVES believe that individuals are primarily responsible for their well-being; and the only responsibility of the government is to ensure people have the freedom to pursue their dreams.

In the real world, how do you pursue dreams when you lack the resources to do so? It’s a known fact that most people live paycheck to paycheck without extra resources to attempt following any of their damn dreams.

Meanwhile, why is that government support come from the local and state levels, preferably from families and private charities? It’s tax dollars that fund the government; therefore, it should be tax dollars that support the have nots.

In the eyes of a Conservative government, it infringes on individual rights. The RICH MAN RIGHTS TO BE EXACT.

Election scandals and apathy…The Insane

Most recall the public’s skepticism about the Watergate scandal that shook America in the early 1970s. Then, former President Richard Nixon said goodbye as he embarked into his helicopter following his resignation in 1974.


Since the mid-sixties, Americans have become more and more frustrated with the government? The negativism is attributed to the disillusionment caused by the government’s handling of the issues.

Former President Lyndon Johnson was accused of lying to the public about the progress of the war. In contrast, former President Richard Nixon got caught in a web of deception in the cover-up of the 1972 break-in of the Democratic Party’s campaign office in the Watergate building.

The IRAN-CONTRA SCANDAL tainted former President Reagan’s administration, and former President Bill Clinton was charged with obstructing evidence in a civil lawsuit against him.

. The past presidents have made mistakes that once had an enduring impact until the Trump Administration was sworn into the White House. All of the past scandals became mute and less harmful to the country. Trumps’ scandals and inundated the airways creating a more significant impact on the people and the government.

He gave racists a platform and strength to come out of hiding. They did it gleefully and openly, with no white robes and masks hiding their faces.

The media is responsible for reporting information on government and politics.


Back then, it was the 1974 Watergate hearings broadcasted on television. Millions of Americans followed the procedure and anticipated responses to essential issues. “Like were top White House officials involved in the deception, and how much did Nixon know about what happened? Did he lie to the people?

Fortunately, Nixon was forced to resign due to the overwhelming public opinion of him. Not so for POTUS 45. Twice impeached, twice not convicted, incited an insurrection based on nothing but INSIDIOUS lies that poisoned the minds of gullible stupid lunatics and tried hard to disenfranchise millions of people of color votes with STOP THE STEAL madness.

In conclusion, the insidious lie continues to loom overhead with bumbling elected politicians engaging in catastrophe terrorist activities without any accountability.

It is SCANDALOUS