Some abuse is not physical. Abuse does not have to be physical. There’s emotional abuse, psychological abuse, and spiritual abuse. -Iyanla Vanzant
How do you know if your partner is a cheater? If you’re asking this question, you already suspect that you’re the victim of infidelity. The signs of cheating are not the same in all relationships.
Sure, but there are some common behaviors you can look for. First and foremost, If your gut tells you that your partner is cheating, more than likely they are.
How do I know? I am a victim of it. Here is what I did and said:
These are the things that come from you to me…
- You become hostile towards me regularly
- Without cause, you make nasty, derogatory remarks to me
- You are mentally abusive towards me
- Your need to please me and do things for me, in an attempt to make me to believe that you are not a liar and a serial cheater. Because you still do things for me
- Your words say I have not shtup other women, but your actions …the condoms and getting an STD to declare otherwise
This marriage and relationship are TOXIC, so to avoid further hostility, until you tell me the TRUTH...It would be best if you didn’t touch me; I refuse to give you the satisfaction of having sex with you ever again.
Finally, this is a dangerous, sick game my dear…be a man; I know for a fact that you have had sex many times with many, many sluts, whores, side pieces so STOP trying to turn your lies into truth. I know better.
Seriously, If you want to fix one of the problems in this marriage, take a good look at yourself in the mirror, decide who you are…the lying deceitful cheater or a respectful man that truly love your wife and doesn’t play with her emotions.
Listen carefully…I expect to be treated with the respect I deserve, and if I am not the one you want …you should walk out of this marriage. Go on get far away from me…see you have gone too far.
SIMPLY PUT, I WANT MY FREEDOM to meet possibly a man that is more about honesty and respect, who will not go outside the relationship looking for a piece of ass.
Unfortunately, I can’t do that if I am still unhappily chained to you.
Sincerely your wife
Final thought:Read about cheaters
Cheating is the most selfish thing a person can do in a relationship! If you are not happy with the person you are with, then end it. It’s that simple