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Actions….Put Into Words 2!

Actions  speak…I plan to start this blog post by asking you: Who do you think has more credibility?

  1. A person who speaks with conviction and is passionate about their beliefs,
  2. Or someone whose words don’t mean anything?

Okay…I’ll tell you what I think.

 It’s a simple fact: actions speak louder than words.

In my experience, if someone is confident enough in what they believe in taking action, the words they speak are less relevant.

This is because their efforts have proven that they sincerely believe in what they say.

In this blog post, I’d like to explore the idea of actions speaking louder than words and how we can use them to influence people’s perceptions of us.

For instance, if you are thinking about what to say or do next in your relationship, it may be time to stop and think about the actions you are taking before speaking.

Actions…Why?

How often have you spoken out of term and regretted the words that escaped through your lips? Actions speak louder than words because they show us who we are at our core.

When people communicate through their actions instead of words, they learn more about themselves and each other.

Because they don’t get caught up in any misunderstandings or miscommunications when talking things out.

Moreover, it means if you want to connect with a loved one on a deeper level, start by noticing what is positive and right in your relationship.

This way, you won’t focus on all the negatives.

It’s no secret that nonverbal communication is a powerful part of human interaction.

In fact, there is no substitute for the ability of a smile, a nod, or even silence to convey emotion and meaning. There is an old saying that “actions speak louder than words,” but what does it actually mean?

Actions…Essentially,

We communicate with others all the time without saying a word.

The most straightforward actions, such as touching one’s phone, convey the message we communicate.

Meanwhile, we simply express our thoughts and feelings to others and ourselves, such as touching ourselves while we speak on the phone.

It is a sign that someone is paying attention when they lean back when they hear someone speak.

 Crossing arms when asking for help is another indication.

Most importantly…it takes courage to put your all into loving someone else, but what better reward is there?

You can tell how much people value others by the lengths they go through to make sure those around them feel loved and cared for.

 This applies both ways:

If we want our loved ones to be happy and content, we should do everything we can to do it.

There’s no better way to say “I love you” than by being there for someone in their time of need or celebrating as hard as they want on their big day.

Conclusion

In fact, we communicate in various ways, and some people might think the words they speak are louder than their actions, but to ignore the impact of body language would be foolish.

I’ve learned that when you want someone’s attention, you can’t rely on what they hear from your mouth but rather the way you act.

 

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That which we persist in doing becomes easier – not that the nature of the task has changed, but our ability to do has increased.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson

The End of Year Right Around the Corner…!

With the end-of-year approaching and a new one beginning, it’s time to reflect on what has happened and what we hope to accomplish in the months to come.THE END OF YEAR

 Some of you may have set resolutions and goals for the new year. 

Are you someone who makes resolutions at the start of every year?

 If so, how many times have you kept them?

 Even though breaking old habits and changing to new ones can be challenging, it’s not impossible. 

It’s something I’m doing right now.

However, we need to clear out the old stuff first, both physically and mentally. 

It’s always exciting to start fresh with a blank page, and the New Year is the perfect opportunity to do just that. 

And So say…END OF YEAR

Goodbye to 2021 and hello to 2022! 

An empty page just waiting for your dreams and aspirations awaits you as you embark on a new adventure. 

It’s always exciting to start fresh with a blank page, and the New Year is the perfect opportunity to do just that. 

As the old year fades away and a fresh one begins, it’s the perfect time to reflect on what you want to achieve in the coming months. 

So let’s decide what we want to accomplish in 2022, whether it’s a change in our careers or personal lives. 

 My life is a journey of letting go of things that no longer serve me and finding new opportunities.

Are you with me? Let’s do this together!

Here are some Classic Poems for the New Year you might find interesting. 

There are many poems about the new year written by diverse writers.

Ella Wheeler Wilcox, “The Year” (1910)

Ella Wheeler Wilcox’s “The Year” is a perfect New Year’s Eve poem we should memorize. 

This song is short and rhythmic, capturing our feelings and time passing.

What we can say in New Year rhymes,

That’s not been said a thousand times?

The new years come, the old years go,

We know we dream; we dream, we know.

We rise laughing with the light,

We lie down weeping with the night.

We hug the world until it stings,

We cursed it then and sighed for wings.

We live, we love, we woo, we wed,

We wreathe our brides; we sheet our dead.

We laugh, weep; we hope, we fear,

And that’s the burden of the year.

Helen Hunt Jackson, “New Year’s Morning” (1892)

Helen Hunt Jackson’s poem, “New Year’s Morning,” discusses how each morning can be New Year’s since it’s only one night.

It ends with: “This is a wonderful piece of inspirational prose.”

Only a night from old to new;

Only a sleep from night to morn.

The new is but the old come true;

Each sunrise sees a new year born.

Alfred, Lord Tennyson, “The Death of the Old Year” (1842)

 The first stanza ends with four poignant lines:

Old year, you must not die;

You came to us so readily,

You lived with us so steadily,

Old year, you shall not die.

Auld Lang Syne…By Robert Burns

Auld Lang Syne was written by Burns in 1788, but it was not published until shortly after his death in 1796.

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Should auld acquaintance 8be forgot,

and never brought to mind?

Should auld acquaintance be forgot,

and auld lang syne?

For auld lang syne, my jo,

for auld lang syne,

we’ll tak’ a cup o’ kindness yet,

for auld lang syne.

And surely ye’ll be your pint-stoup!

and surely I’ll be mine!

And we’ll tak’ a cup o’ kindness yet,

for auld lang syne.

For auld lang syne, my jo,

for auld lang syne,

we’ll tak’ a cup o’ kindness yet,

for auld lang syne.

We twa hae run about the braes,

and pou’d the gowans fine;

But we’ve wander’d mony a weary fit,

sin’ auld lang syne.

For auld lang syne, my jo,

for auld lang syne,

we’ll tak’ a cup o’ kindness yet,

for auld lang syne.

We twa hae paidl’d in the burn,

frae morning sun till dine;

But seas between us braid hae roar’d

sin’ auld lang syne.

For auld lang syne, my jo,

for auld lang syne,

we’ll tak’ a cup o’ kindness yet,

for auld lang syne.

And there’s a hand,

my trusty fiere!

And gie’s a hand o’ thine!

And we’ll tak’ a right gude-willie waught,

for auld lang syne.

My best wishes for a prosperous new year despite the challenges you face. Although we wish things were different, we hope we can visit you. 

We hope that the new year brings your family much happiness and prosperity and that in time the world will be a safe place again. 

Take care of yourselves and see you on Zoom soon!

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Christmastime…Let Love And Happiness Fill Your Heart2!

 

christmastimeChristmastime… It is the Ghost of Christmas Past, and he takes Scrooge to the previous Christmases of his life.

Christmas is considered one of the most significant holidays in the world.

If you’re unsure what to get that person who has everything or wants nothing;

 Find the perfect gift with these ideas.

QUOTE BY UNKNOWN

Perhaps the best Yuletide decoration is being wreathed in smiles.

QUOTE BY HELEN STEINER RICE

Love changes darkness into light and makes the heart take a wingless flight.

Christmas is a season of joy and celebration. 

christmastime

The holiday season is upon us once again, and you’re sipping eggnog and watching the snowfall outside or not. 

But for those who have lost loved ones, it can be a painful reminder of the empty spaces they’ll never fill again. 

The Ghost of Christmas Past will show you all the moments that make this holiday so unique – and also the pain that comes with losing someone you love.

QUOTE BY PATRICIA CLIFFORD

Christmas is a time to expand our giving, encompassing the friendless and needy… near and far. 

Christmastime  is sharing.

 

christmastimeWe can stay close to our departed loved ones during the holidays by remembering their favorite things about Christmas;

 Or what made them laugh or smile in life rather than what makes us sad now. 

We may not be able to bring back those we’ve lost, but we can honor them by living as if there’s still hope for tomorrow.

QUOTE BY FULTON SHEEN

The simple shepherds heard the voice of an angel and found their Lamb; 

The wise men saw the light of a star and found their Wisdom.

And so, Christmastime…

It’s also the season for making memories with friends and family. 

What better way to do this than by telling some ghost stories?

 If you’re looking for a good story, then keep reading!

 I’ll share with you my favorite ones from childhood: 

“The Legend of Sleepy Hollow,” “A Christmas Carol,” and “The Legend of The Headless Horseman.”

 These are all great reads, but they can be scary, so don’t read them alone at night!  

Christmas is…

 We celebrate a holiday not as individuals or as a nation but as a human family. Ronald Reagan

QUOTE BY HELEN STEINER RICE

Peace on earth will come to stay when we live Christmas every day.

CHRISTMASTIME

QUOTE BY J. C. PENNEY

We should make the Yuletide season an occasion not merely for the giving of material things but an occasion for the giving of that which counts infinitely more? the giving of self.

QUOTE BY DR. SEUSS

And the Grinch, with his Grinch-feet ice cold in the snow, stood puzzling and CHRISTMASTIMEpuzzling. How could it be so?

 It came without ribbons. 

It came without tags. It came without packages, boxes, or bags.

And he puzzled and puzzled ’till his puzzler was sore.

Then the Grinch thought of something he hadn’t before.

 What if Christmas, he thought, doesn’t come from a store? 

What if Christmas, perhaps, means a little more?

Conclusion:  

The thought of Christmas being something that you can buy… is not new. 

But what if it’s time for us to change our perspective on the holiday season? 

What if, instead of focusing solely on gifts and material things, we took some time to reflect on all the good nuggets from 2021 and focus more on family-oriented traditions? 

Happy holidays everyone!christmastime

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Closed Doors Of the Past

Feel a Little Bit of Inspiration2

Feel …When you face difficulties, it means you arefeel embarking on a new journey.
Never lose hope and keep going.
feel“A positive attitude generates a beautiful day, which then develops into a stunning month, which then turns into a life-changing year, which then becomes a wonderful life.”

When you want to make your life feel better and your thoughts more positive…

Remember, The grass is greener where you water it.”

When you want to take control of your life and make the most of everything around you…

Feel…Wherever life plants you, bloom with grace.”

If you want to live life to the fullest and make the most of everything around you…

Don’t be afraid to embrace life wherever it plants you.

“Don’t let what others think and expect influence your decisions.”.

Although positive thinking has many benefits, finding optimism 24 hours a day is a challenge.

Life, work, and relationships can be stressful.

To keep the flame of positivity burning inside of yourself, it’s sometimes a good idea to look outside for motivation.

Brain-child

This is your life, not theirs. Do what matters most to you; do what makes you feel alive and happy.

Don’t let the expectations and ideas of others limit who you are.

If you let others tell you who you are, you live their reality — not yours. There is more to life than pleasing people.

Love is much more to life than following others’ prescribed paths. There is so much more to life than what you experience right now.

You need to decide who you are for yourself. Become a whole being. Adventure.”

Roy T. Bennett

Never lose an opportunity of seeing anything that is beautiful; for beauty is God’s handwriting on a wayside sacrament. Welcome it in every fair face, in every fair sky, in every fair flower, and thank God for it as a cup of blessing. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

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Things You Should Never Lie About!

TO YOUR
DOCTOR

Things

Things you should never lie about“It’s no secret that as we age, our health takes a beating. And the truth is that even if you don’t feel like there are any changes in your physical condition, it doesn’t mean you’re not experiencing some serious developments. So what should you never lie to your doctor about after 40? Let’s take a look.” 

Your Age

Your doctor might mistake those hot flashes as a symptom of hyperthyroidism instead of a sign of menopause.

Your Drinking Habits

Things you should never lie aboutExcessive drinking can cause many health issues that range from heart disease to hepatitis—but the more honest you are about your drinking habits, the better your odds will be.”

Your Family’s Medical History

When you talk to your doctor, you should disclose your family’s medical history—genetics plays a significant role in your physical and mental health. 

Your Medical and Surgical History

Everything from allergies to medications to previous surgeries can impact a doctor’s diagnosis and prescribe treatment.

Your Mental Health

“Your physical and emotional pain have more in common than you think. Per one study published in The Primary Care Companion to the Journal of Clinical Psychiatry, physical symptoms that commonly accompany depression include joint pain, back pain, and stomach problems.”

To begin with, the only thing worse than knowing something is wrong with you (and possibly having to go through treatment) is finding out later when it might be too late.

So… give your doctors all details of your medical history so that they can do a better job when diagnosing and treating your problems. It can be challenging to talk about these issues and sometimes need prompting from patients. (So don’t withhold information.)

You see, lying to your doctor is never a good idea. As a matter of fact, if you are over 40, it might be time to start telling the truth about your medical issues.

Your Smoking History

“According to the American Cancer Society, lung cancer primarily occurs in older individuals, with the average lung cancer diagnosed at about 70 years old.” And even if you are a former smoker and no longer touch tobacco, you should still let your doctor know.

Final Thought, 

Proverb

it’s wiser to be cautious than to be hasty or rash and do something you may regret later.

(a stitch in time saves nine)

 

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