We all appreciate compliments. They make us feel good, and they’re a great way to start the day.
But what about criticism?
Receiving criticism can feel like a personal attack, but it doesn’t have to be that way.
There’s no denying that criticism can be tough to take.
Nevertheless,
If you’re able to appreciate and learn from it, it can be a powerful tool for growth.
With this in mind—If you’re like me, you probably think of criticism as a four-letter word.
I don’t like to hear it, and I’m certainly not the best at giving it.
Also, I’ve learned over the years that positive or negative feedback allows you to see yourself through other people’s eyes and can help you improve your skills.
So the next time someone offers you criticism, good or bad, try not to take it personally and instead use it to your advantage.
It may surprise you how much you can learn!
So, if you’re looking to become more resilient in the face of critique, read on!
The next time… you receive some constructive feedback, thank the critic for their input – it may surprise you at how much you can learn from them.
But here’s the thing:
Criticism can be one of your most excellent tools for growth.
And if it’s not such an excellent critique, remember that you can always discard it—but at least you tried!
Having said that…Fault Finding
In any society, critical analysis is important, and every person is a fair target for constructive criticism.
Finally, join me in thanking those who have taken the time to criticize us constructively.
Honest, critical feedback can strengthen your bond rather than degrade it.”
—Justin Rosenstein, Asana co-Founder
The habit of constantly pointing out people’s faults is most likely a reflection of what you’ve struggled with in childhood.
It is a manifestation of an insecurity about the very things that you judge other people for most often.
Some people who have difficulty taking responsibility for their own actions have a tendency to project onto others that with which they struggle.
In fact, the avoidance of responsibility and a difficulty apologizing to people you’ve hurt are the trademarks of the constant fault finder.Read More
Morally Bankrupt…unfortunately, some people may never recognize they have reached the point of moral bankruptcy.
Denial, rationalization’s first cousin, maintains their perception of reality.
Denial helps a person maintain fiction in the cold light of fact. Denial is a perversely remarkable creative ability that carries a tremendous potential cost.
Donald Trump is a morally bankrupt underhanded coward. The man is a liar, a cheat, and a fraud.
This man is a stain on America! He was a disaster waiting to happen.
I don’t think he’s fit to be President.
Humans shouldn’t be around him.
He is not qualified to be President.
In fact, he should never sit behind that desk in the oval office again.
Case in point…
The National Archives discovered that several of the documents it provided to the House committee investigating the Capitol attack on January 6 had been torn up.
After former President Donald Trump tore up the documents, Government officials taped the pieces together and then delivered them to the records agency.
Despite his insistence on destroying administrative records, Trump’s conduct represents the latest example in a widespread campaign to undermine transparency and accountability in the presidency.
KEY POINTS
White House sent fifteen boxes of government records to former President Donald Trump’s resort-home Mar-a-Lago has been retrieved by the National Archives and Records Administration.
As required by the Presidential Records Act, those records should have been handed over directly to NARA once Trump left office.
Meanwhile, the House January 6 committee is working to determine whether former President Donald J. Trump had anything to do with the proposal to seize voting machines after the 2020 election.
They wanted to create a legal basis for such an extreme course of action to be taken by national security agencies.
And Now…
Attorney General Letitia James is being sued by Donald Trump, who asks the court to end her long-running investigation into Trump’s business practices.
According to James, Trump and his company have repeatedly attempted to delay her investigation.
Moreover, Trump has indicated he will consider pardoning defendants in the January 6 Capitol riot if he returns to the White House.
During a rally in Conroe, Texas, Trump said that “we will treat those people fairly” if he runs and wins, starting on January 6.
Then we will pardon them if pardons are necessary because they are being mistreated.
Although…
As of December 2021, 165 defendants pleaded guilty to misdemeanor offenses and were sentenced to six months in jail.
Prosecutors have said some hundreds of Trump supporters who stormed the Capitol were prepared for battle, wearing helmets and tactical gear.
Several were seen on video or in photos carrying baseball bats and other weapons.
The riot left the halls of Congress with broken windows, vandalized walls, and ransacked offices.
Undoubtedly, Trump is morally bankrupt, a piece of cake impeached by the House in the attack’s wake for “incitement to insurrection” but acquitted by the Senate.
As if that is not enough… he is hinting at another run for the White House.
The question is, what will he do if he gets a second term?
What will be his campaign promise be?
In short, when Donald Trump ran for President in 2016, he promised to drain the swamp in Washington.
Nevertheless, he brought the swamp to the White House…
Many advisers, family members, and appointees within his administration were accused of
A conflict of interest, Power plays, etc.
Self-enrichment,
Ethical violations
Even if you follow every rule in the book, things may still go wrong.
Hey Folks! This blog post is for you. I hope you’re having a great day and are ready to learn something about and listen to the voices of African American men who worked to build this country up and have never been shown any appreciation.
Throughout history, thousands of men and women desire to be talked about and shown some acknowledgment. People like Martin Luther King Jr., Rosa Parks, and Barack Obama have been written about and talked about for some time now.
However, You will not know these names, but this post will educate you on our black men who are worthy of being the topics of discussion. It is a painful history and matter; nonetheless, it is my topic today.
I hope that this blog will enlighten you as well as be entertaining.
The first person I will showcase is :
Fountain Hughes, Age 101
Fountain Hughes, circa 1952. Photograph courtesy of The Jeffersonian newspaper, Towson, Maryland.
Subsequently, Fountain Hughes lived a long time after gaining his freedom after the Civil War. According to the Census Reports, Mr. Hughes was 71 years old and married, living in Baltimore, Maryland, in the 1920 census.
And then, in the 1930 census, he was 81 years old, living at 3201 Wyler Ave, Baltimore, MD; 1940 census, he was 91 years 0ld and working as a Gardner. His workweek was 40 hours, and he earned $400.00 a month.
In any case, Fountain Hughes died at the age of 109 years old in 1957. The obituary was dated July 5, 1957. He was born in Charlottesville, Virginia.
He left behind a daughter named Shallie Addison.
Fountain Hughes, Interview.
“You wasn’t no more than a dog to some of them in them days. You wasn’t treated as good as they treat dogs now. But still I didn’t like to talk about it. Because it makes, makes people feel bad you know. Uh, I, I could say a whole lot I don’t like to . And I won’t say a whole lot more.”
I want to say thanks so much for reading my blog post intro paragraph today.
Thanks again, and stay tuned because I’ll be talking about more African American history next week! Make sure to keep following my blog posts if you’re interested in learning more about these topics!
Source of Information:
Ancestry.Com census records
Library of Congress
Chicago citation style:
Norwood, Hermond, and Fountain Hughes. Interview with Fountain Hughes, Baltimore, Maryland. Baltimore, Maryland, November , 6, 1949. Pdf. https://www.loc.gov/item/afc1950037_afs09990a/.
APA citation style:
Norwood, H. & Hughes, F. (1949) Interview with Fountain Hughes, Baltimore, Maryland. Baltimore, Maryland, November , 6. [Pdf] Retrieved from the Library of Congress, https://www.loc.gov/item/afc1950037_afs09990a/.
They called her Sojourner Truth, but in actuality, her name was Isabella Baumfree. She was born in 1797 in Ulster County, New York, to James and Elizabethan Baumfree.
Along with her parents, she spent her life on the Johannesburg estate as a slave.
Dutch was her first language since Dutch people enslaved her.
Despite everything, when she turned nine years old, she was sold away from her family to a man near Kingston, New York, named John Neely; He purchased her and some sheep for one hundred dollars.
For the most part, Sojourner was held by John Neely’s until 1808;
then, he sold her to Martinus Schryver of Port Ewen, New York, where she stayed for only 18 months.
Next, she was sold again to John Dumont of West Park, New York. There she remained his property until 1826. As a result of being sold over and over, she decided to escape.
All the more reasons to escape while at the Dumonts, Sojourner was not liked by John Dumont’s wife Elizabeth, experienced tension and harassment from her, and was raped by John.
What is more, through all of the turmoil, Sojourner met and fell in love with an enslaved man named Robert from a neighboring farm in 1815. Simply put, Robert’s owner beat him to death for meeting her against his wishes.
Sojourner Truth…It was Frightening and Horrific.
Sojourner had the pleasure of meeting another enslaved man named Thomas Years later, she had three children, Peter, Elizabeth, and Sophia, with Thomas.
Besides, before Thomas – her first child, James, died as a child. Her second, Diana, was the child of rape by John Dumont.
Shameful…they were still enslaved until adulthood. That law was useless.
That said, New York State passed a law for the gradual abolition of slavery. After July 4, 1799, children born to enslaved women were, by legal definition, free but required to work for their mother’s owner until they were in their twenties (28 for males and 25 for females).
Meanwhile, according to the law, those born before July 4, 1799, were considered indentured servants. The Truth is, in reality, they continued to be enslaved for life.
John Dumont promised to free Sojourner before the final emancipation date of the 1817 law in which all slaves in the State born before July 4, 1799 would become free on July 4, 1827.
Nonetheless, in 1826, before the date, Dumont had a change of mind. To that end, Sojourner freed herself by running away with her infant daughter Sophia.
She would later work to emancipate Peter after Dumont sold him to someone in Alabama in defiance of the law. Read More
Meanwhile, Isaac and Maria Van Wagenen’s in New Paltz, New York, gave Sojourner and Sophia refuge in their home and paid Dumont $20 for her labor until the emancipation day, July 4, 1827.
Straightaway, while staying with the Van Wagenen’s, Sojourner focused her attention on finding her son Peter; with her hosts’ assistance, she filed a court case for a legal hearing to get her son back to New York.
Amazingly, in 1828 the court ruled in her favor for Peter to get him back home to New York. Afterward, in 1829, she and Peter left New Paltz and moved to New York City.
There, Sojourner found a job as a housekeeper, but once again, there was trouble. She was accused of poisoning and stealing from her employers.
In due time she was acquitted of both charges.
Finally, in 1843, Sojourner became a Methodist, called by God, left the city and “testified across the countryside spreading her Truth; took the name Sojourner Truth; touring the country, speaking against slavery.
In 1844, she moved to Northampton, Massachusetts, joined the Northampton Association of Education and Industry, and wrote a book, named The Narrative of Sojourner Truth: a Northern Slave, which Garrison published.
Eventually, she bought a house in Northampton. She paid off her home three years later by selling photographs of herself captioned, “I sell the shadow to support the substance.”
At the Ohio Women’s Rights Convention held in Akron, in May 1851, she spoke “Ain’t I a Woman?”, one of the most famous lessons on African American and women’s rights.
Sojourner Truth travels the United States speaking on matters relating to African Americans and women’s rights and the right to vote.
During the Civil War, Sojourner recruited African American men for the Union Army.
In 1864, while working at the National Freedmen’s Relief Association in Washington, D.C., she met President Abraham Lincoln; and rode on public streetcars in support of desegregation.
Soujourner Truth African Americans’ needs continued to travel and speak as her health declined. Sadly, She passed away in Battle, Michigan, at her home on November 26, 1883, at 86. She was laid to rest in Battle Creek’s Oak Hill Cemetery.
In her life, she tirelessly advocated for African Americans’ rights, women, and numerous reform causes, including prison reform and against capital punishment.
Source of Information Sojourner Truth (U.S. National Park Service)
Strength… It is virtually impossible to move forward in a world of negativity without having mental strength through the following attributes:
Adaptability – able to adjust to new conditions.
Endurance- enduring an unpleasant or difficult situation without giving way.
Steadfastness-firmly loyal or constant; unswerving.
Dependability- trustworthy and reliable.
Effectiveness -successful in producing a desired result.
With personal strengths comes the balance of personal weaknesses, which is necessary for mental strength.
Also
In the absence of individual strengths or a purpose, mental strength can cause negative behaviors; including victimizing, being predictable, becoming lazy, and always looking for shortcuts.
Keeping an eye out for imbalances will help you adjust when it comes right down to it; behaviors and thoughts matter.
Bible Verses About Strength
Philippians 4:13 – I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.
Deuteronomy 31:6 – Be strong and of good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of them: for the LORD thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee.
Isaiah 41:10 – Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.
Deuteronomy 20:4 – For the LORD your God is he that goeth with you, to fight for you against your enemies, to save you.
1 Corinthians 10:13 – There has no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may bear it.
2 Corinthians 12:9-10 – And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my Strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly, therefore, will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. (Read More…)
Isaiah 40:31 – But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their Strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
Matthew 11:28 – Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
Psalms 31:24 – Be of good courage, and he shall strengthen your heart, all ye that hope in the LORD.
Exodus 15:2 – The LORD is my Strength and song, and he is become my salvation: he is my God, and I will prepare him an habitation; my father’s God, and I will exalt him.
1 Corinthians 16:13 – Watch ye, stand fast in the faith, quit you like men, be strong.
Matthew 6:33 – But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. Read More.