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My History Education…

David Walker (September 28, 1796 – August 6, 1830) was an influential American abolitionist, writer, and anti-slavery activist. Born to a free mother and an enslaved father, he was free himself due to the principle of partus sequitur ventrem. 

In 1829, while residing in Boston, he published “An Appeal to the Colored Citizens of the World,” which called for black unity and resistance against slavery. 

His work highlighted the injustices of slavery and urged individuals to act according to their religious and political beliefs. 

The pamphlet caused significant controversy, particularly in the South, leading to laws restricting the circulation of “seditious publications.” Walker’s advocacy for the rights of black individuals made him a prominent figure in the abolitionist movement.

His legacy continued through his son, Edward G. Walker, who became one of the first two black men elected to the Massachusetts State Legislature in 1866. 

David Walker’s literary contributions were instrumental in forming the early abolitionist movement in the United States. 

His passionate appeal for unity among black individuals and defiance against slavery struck a chord with many, including both black and white citizens, who opposed this institution. 

Despite facing significant criticism and censorship, Walker remained a determined advocate for the rights and liberation of African Americans. 

His legacy serves as both a reminder and a source of motivation for activists, as his writings poignantly highlight the ongoing struggle for racial equality and justice today.

While slavery may no longer be overtly visible in contemporary society, its remnants can still be detected within the MAGA movement. 

This movement is actively working to reverse the significant advancements in the civil rights struggle throughout American history, jeopardizing the hard-won progress toward equality and justice.

The MAGA movement is actively trying to alter and reframe historical narratives by engaging in book banning, enacting legislation that undermines fundamental rights, and promoting an agenda that fosters deep divisions within the country—more pronounced than those experienced during the antebellum period. 

For example, Congresswoman Marjorie Taylor Greene has been a vocal proponent of embracing Confederate ideals over those of democracy. 

Meanwhile, President-Elect 47 appears to be working towards implementing policies that echo the principles of the Confederacy and or a dictatorship challenging the very foundations of democratic governance.

I would like to share a heartfelt appeal to our nation’s colored citizens. David Walker’s powerful words resonate deeply, emphasizing the crucial need to raise our voices against injustice and advocate for what is just and fair, even when confronted with significant challenges and opposition. 

We should never allow ourselves to be muted by fear or indifference; instead, we must gather our courage, stand together as a united force, and passionately vocalize our convictions, ensuring that our messages resonate clearly and powerfully in the world around us.

Walker’s bold and unwavering actions in confronting his era’s entrenched social and political norms ignited essential conversations about the need for change. They carved a lasting and powerful legacy in American history. 

His dedication to justice and equality resonated with others, inspiring future generations to challenge the status quo and work toward a more equitable society.

His steadfast commitment to racial equality is a powerful reminder of the ongoing journey toward justice and the relentless fight that continues today.

I don’t recall ever encountering the name David Walker in any history books or during my school years. Despite his significant contributions and impact, he has been overlooked in the narrative of our past. 

Walker was a prominent abolitionist and a passionate advocate for African Americans’ rights, yet his story is often absent from discussions about the fight for freedom and equality. 

It’s essential to recognize figures like him, who played a vital role in shaping history, rather than allowing their legacies to be buried and forgotten. 

It’s very perplexing. You want to shield your children from the harsh realities of history by prohibiting any literature that reveals the painful and tragic events that were inflicted upon a marginalized group. 

This includes banning books that discuss the systemic injustices, discrimination, and violence that shaped their experiences. You don’t want it taught in classrooms.

By restricting access, you aim to create a protective bubble, believing that ignorance will preserve their innocence and spare them from the weight of such brutal truths. 

Truth be told… by doing so, you inadvertently deny them the opportunity to learn about the past, understand the complexities of human behavior, and empathize with others’ struggles.

In addition to shielding your children…you are complaining about rising food prices and inflation. You blame the current administration, which has done more for you than you may realize.

This attitude is a part of the problem. You need to take the time to think, educate yourself, or take responsibility for your actions and inactions. 

The bottom line is that the atrocities of the incoming administration coming to you will be well-deserved.  

I want to convey my frustration regarding your apparent lack of awareness. Your ignorance created an environment that subjects the rest of us to challenging and distressing situations, which we don’t deserve. 

Your insensitivity has consequences for you, and it profoundly affects our lives as well. Your actions will create situations leading to unfair and unjust experiences for those around you. 

I wish you were more mindful of how your actions impact others. A bit of insight could help prevent the unnecessary difficulties that will be inflicted upon us by the incoming want-to-be dictator you voted for. 

In fact, the rest of us who didn’t vote for the dictatorship cannot afford to remain silent about the disturbing actions the incoming administration will take. 

We must raise our voices and take a decisive stand against any injustices that may arise in our communities and beyond. 

We must not allow these wrongs to go unchallenged. Our words and actions should resonate with conviction, reflecting our unwavering commitment to justice and equality.

Standing together, we can ensure that our collective determination illuminates the issues at hand and inspires change.

I want positive change, not a return to a time of unrest.

These beliefs shape my values and worldview. Everyone is entitled to their opinions and perspectives, and I respect that you may hold different views. 

However, I would appreciate it if you could take a moment to reflect on my perspective. I intend not to persuade you to agree; I hope to foster understanding and meaningful dialogue.

Because…

Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we’ve been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.

Barack Obama

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Life and Decisions…In The Keys of Life!

Life and decisions.

Life and decisions…When faced with a decision, we often experience confusion and stress. Our mind tells us that we need to make the right choice while our heart is filled with fear and doubt. 

It’s easy to get caught up in the moment and lose sight of what matters. In moments like these, it’s useful to have inspirational quotes on life and decisions. These quotes can give you a new perspective on your situation and help you confidently move forward. 

These motivational quotes about life, decisions, and moving forward after failure will help you see things from a different perspective. 

Meanwhile, when you feel stuck or confused about what to do next in your life, keep these wise words from famous authors, thinkers, and celebrities in mind as inspiration when making choices.

Stay happy no matter what…

Life and decisions.

“Happiness is a state of mind, not a set of circumstances.” 

― Richard Carlson, You Can Be Happy No Matter What: Five Principles for Keeping Life in Perspective

If you want to be happy, it’s worth remembering that happiness isn’t something that happens to us; it’s something we create. If you’re feeling unhappy, you’re in charge of changing that. It’s not easy to stay happy in every situation, but with practice, it becomes easier.

Happiness is an inside job. It’s not something that happens to you; it’s something you create. When times get tough, you can let the situation control you or choose to stay in control by working on your mindset. 

The better you stay happy, the easier it is to get through the hard stuff. You can do this by reminding yourself that happiness is a choice.

## Don’t let fear hold you back…

“I am strong because I am weak. I am beautiful because I know my flaws. I am a lover because I am a fighter. I am fearless because I have been afraid. I am wise because I have been foolish. & I can laugh because I’ve known sadness.”

— AnonymousBeyond Adversity

Another reason why people don’t pursue their passions is that they’re afraid of failure. But, this fear can hold you back from achieving all of your potentials. You may be stuck in a job or situation that you don’t enjoy because you’re afraid of what might happen if you make a change or fail at something new. 

To live a fulfilling life, you must learn to let go of your fears. You can do this by taking small steps towards your goals, facing your fears, and surrounding yourself with positive people

If you’re tempted to quit something, think about why you started it in the first place. This can help you decide if it’s worth sticking with it. If it is, you’ll know the fear is holding you back.

Decisions are a part of life…

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

Theodore Roosevelt

Life and decisions.

Every choice that you make will impact your future in some way. This can seem overwhelming, especially if you’ve recently decided about what to study or where to live. If you feel overwhelmed by the choices you have to make in your life, remember that you have control over how you respond to them.

You can decide to react negatively or positively to any situation, even if it’s difficult. If you’re feeling stuck in decision-making, try to take a step back from the situation and look at it from a different perspective. Ask yourself what you’re grateful for in your life and your values. Doing this can help you find clarity when you’re feeling stressed out.

Remember to be proud of who you are…

Life and decisions.

“Be proud of yourself. Be proud that your heart and intentions are good. Be proud of the fact that you are trying.” 

― Richelle E. Goodrich, Being Bold: Quotes, Poetry, & Motivations for Every Day of the Year

It’s easy to get caught up in comparing yourself to others. But, you don’t have to compete with anyone else to be proud of who you are. 

Instead of focusing on what other people are doing, look at your strengths, weaknesses, and what you want to do next in your life. 

You may be feeling confused about the next step in your life because you’re comparing yourself to others and feeling like you’re falling short. 

Remember to be proud of who you are and let go of the need to compare yourself to others. Don’t let other people’s achievements make you feel bad about yourself. Instead, use them as inspiration to achieve your own goals.

Conclusion

Life can be unpredictable…

 But it’s important to remember that you control how you respond to it. When faced with a decision, try to take a step back from the situation and look at it from a different perspective. 

This can help you find clarity when you’re feeling stressed out. Remember to be proud of who you are and let go of the need to compare yourself to others. This can help you stay positive when faced with challenging situations.

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Comfort Zone… You Need to Step Outside!

The comfort zone is nothing else but a graveyard for your dreams & ideas.” -Anonymous

 In the Comfort zone, you need to take that leap of faith and push yourself outside your comfort zone. 

Comfort zoneWhy? Well, I have learned that there are many benefits in doing so- not only will it make life <span data-preserver-spaces=”true”>more exciting, and an experience worth having!

Although taking risks is scary, it’s necessary for growth. You can’t grow if you don’t step out of your comfort zone from time to time!

However, the best time is up in the air, but I’ve learned that there are moments when we need to take a chance… and exit the Comfort zone!

By leaving your comfort zone behind and taking a leap of faith into something new, you find out who you are truly capable of becoming.” -Anonymous

The Following tips for stepping outside your comfort bubble easily and effectively:

Be Intentional With Your Choices…Outside Of The Comfort zone!

The best way to have a happy, fulfilling life is by being intentional about your decisions. 

It also involves clarifying our favorite memories, knowing which ones matter most! Lastly, it may seem hard at times, but these things can help prevent errors in judgment later down the road.

To do so, you must be clear on who and what kind of person you desire for your future self.  

It means understanding everything from…

  • personal interests, 
  • family values, goals; 
  • lifestyle preferences 
  • spending time with family and friends 
  • taking care of oneself; 
  • romantic orientation,
  •  and whether you prefer femininity over masculinity. 

See, Life is all about making decisions and choosing who you are. Instead of doing what society expects you to do, you’ll be doing what you want to do. (Get out of your comfort zone!)

You’ll live the life you want, not the one others expect you to live.

Don’t allow fear to consume you...Feel the fear and do it anyway.” -Anonymous

One of the biggest reasons people stay inside their comfort zones is that they fear what will happen if they step outside. 

You fear that you won’t be able to accomplish your goals or will fail. Or it could be that you are afraid of not being able to perform as well as you would in your comfort zone. 

Often, fear consumes you, making it difficult to do anything outside your comfort zone. You don’t have to fall victim to this fear, though.

 You can rise above it and overcome it by taking some deep breaths. Or by doing something that makes you happy and getting your mind off of the things that have you feeling anxious and stressed out.

I’m not telling you it’s going to be easy; I’m telling you it’s going to be worth it.” -Anonymous Quote

Be Bold …Try Something You’re Afraid To Do!

In contrast, we’re afraid of many things, whether public speaking, asking someone out, or taking a new route to work. 

Whether you know it or not…the best way to step outside your comfort bubble is to try something you’re afraid of. 

It’s a great way to test your boundaries and give you an idea of what it feels like to be https://jusmeetwo.com/failure-is-an-opportunity-to-succeed/outside your comfort zone. 

You may even find that you can do things you thought you were incapable of. What matters most is just doing it!

If you get the heebie-jeebies…shake it off and get to stepping!

Once you’ve tried something outside your comfort zone, you may notice less afraid of it. You may also realize that it’s not as bad as you thought it would be and wasn’t that bad at all.

Make small changes that lead to big results

Another great way to step outside your comfort zone is to make small changes that lead to large results.

Start small, then work your way up as you become more comfortable with the idea of stepping outside your comfort zone. 

Take action immediatelyWhen was the last time you did something for the first time.” -Anonymous

One of the best ways to step outside your comfort zone is to take action immediately. 

If not, you’ll let your mind convince you that you can’t do it and talk yourself out. 

So, refuse to delay; instead, take action immediately and don’t let yourself psych yourself out.

There is no doubt; If you let it sit in your mind too long, you’ll psych yourself out and never do it.

When…Now is always the right time!

Nevertheless, another way to step outside your comfort zone is to remind yourself that now is always the right time. 

It’s always the right time to ask someone out or make a big change in your life

Now is always the right time to do something to make you a better person.

 Instead of when you feel ready, stepping outside your comfort zone and doing these things now will make you a better person, no matter what happens.

By leaving your comfort zone behind and taking a leap of faith into something new, you find out who you are truly capable of becoming.” -Anonymous

Feel the fear and do it anyway.” -Anonymous

Final note

Remember stepping outside your comfort zone is important for growth. It may feel uncomfortable at first, but that’s okay. Being uncomfortable is the only way to grow. 

The more you step outside your comfort zone, the more you’ll grow as a person and the more you’ll be able to achieve anything.

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Real-life is waiting outside /A new world is waiting for you!

Quotes

I’m not telling you it’s going to be easy; I’m telling you it’s going to be worth it.” -Anonymous Quote

You never change your life until you step out of your comfort zone; change begins at the end of your comfort zone.” 

― Roy T. Bennett

Sources

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-flux/201512/5-benefits-stepping-outside-your-comfort-zone

https://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/10-ways-step-out-your-comfort-zone-and-enjoy-taking-risks.html

https://jusmeetwo.com/cultivating-self-love-and-acceptance-loving-yourself/

Gun Control and Gun Rights…The Struggle2!

Understand What Is Your Purpose

understandI never understand the purpose of anyone’s hate carried in their hearts for people of color. They are cruel, heartless beings. And the way they got rich is even more brutal still. But what can be said about a being who is heartless even though they possess one?”

People seldom talk about how primal emotions have pushed U.S. History where race and tribe are concerned. And yet, it has always been there. It stripped the Native Americans from their ancestral lands, forcing them onto reservations, and forced Africans to work sunup to sundown while being treated as less than human.

African slave families and marriages were not recognized by American law. Owners were free to sell husbands from wives, parents from children, and brothers and sisters. Never to see each other again.

Women and girls were raped and impregnated.

Yes, lack of information has its position in all of that. As does greed, as does hate. But let’s now not overlook fear. Fear of pure white blood, getting tainted. Fear of attack. Fear of being replaced.

Fear of reprisal, a situation that gave power to the “minority,” will deal with the majority as the majority have dealt with the minority.

That soon, no white racial crew will be in a function to declare numerical dominance.

Some white people are horrified, envisioning not calling all the shots..not being in charge. And horrific things have a tendency to occur when white human beings — specifically white men— get scared.

Hence, there are more mixed-race people than white people. Hence, Pittsburgh, Charlottesville, and Charleston. Accordingly, the spike in voter suppression. Hence Donald Trump.

And, consequently, a mob of essential white, commonly men, smashing thru the sacred house of the U.S. Capitol. Economic anxiety? Who’s extra economically anxious than Black and brown people? And how many Capitols have they breached?Read More

Senator Tim Scott, how could you say America isn’t Racist? What rock have you been living under?

Wake-up America is full of Racism.

Let Punishment Fit The Crime!!

The Punishment: George Floyd died last week after a white cop refused to remove his knee from his neck keeping his airway blocked for nearly 9 minutes. This shocking incident was recorded by bystanders.
Allegedly he tried to pass a phony $20 bill before he died. No matter, those police officers could have handled this differently.
The head of the Minneapolis police union doesn’t care that a human life being taken away. Because he says George Floyd’s “violent criminal history” needs to be remembered and that the protests over his death are the work of a “terrorist movement.”

Bob Kroll –police union told his members in a letter–“the violent criminal history of George Floyd is not airing in the media.

What kind of BS is this?

Really–what kind of thinking is this. A child lost her father over this unnecessary police tactic. So what the Union chief is saying George Floyd deserved to die! Why? His criminal history.
He wants the protesters to know Floyd had landed five years behind bars in 2009 for an assault and robbery two years earlier. Before that, he had been convicted of charges ranging from theft with a firearm to drugs.
The man paid the price for his crimes and should not be further demeaned in the media because of it.
What’s more important is that white cop had every opportunity take his knee off the man neck–especially when he kept REPEATING “I CAN’T BREATHE.”

“I’ve worked with the four defense attorneys that are representing each of our four terminated individuals under criminal investigation, in addition to our labor attorneys to fight for their jobs.
They were terminated without due process,” Kroll wrote.
“This terrorist movement that is currently occurring was a long time build up which dates back years,” Kroll said in his letter of the protests, adding that some of his city’s issues exist because Minneapolis leaders have been “minimizing the size of our police force and diverting funds to community activists with an anti-police agenda.read more here

My take on the statement  above is:

The Police Union is full of corrupted members that want to use brutality as a means of defense against people committing crimes, no matter the nature of the offense.
Despite being caught on video–it seems as if they are going to continue brutalizing George Floyd by attempting to making what occurred justified.
Those cops deserved what they got–for not taking the appropriate actions in light of the situation. Floyd was down and handcuffed.
His death was a crime and the cops should be punished, just as Floyd was punished for his crimes.

Black Lives Matter

The Death of a 14 year old Black Boy

“Most middle-class whites have no idea what it feels like to be subjected to police who are routinely suspicious, rude, belligerent, and brutal.”
― Dr. Benjamin Spock
“We live in, arguably, the most developed, powerful country in the world, yet we are still unable to find a way to keep corrupt cops from killing black men. Why is that?”
― Carlos Wallace
“I know that it’s hard to believe that the people you look to for safety and security are the same people who are causing us so much harm. But I’m not lying and I’m not delusional. I am scared and I am hurting and we are dying. And I really, really need you to believe me.”
― Ijeoma Oluo, So You Want to Talk About Race