Tag: Challenges

Dare To Be You… IN A WORLD OF 2 MANY PEEPS!

Dare to be youIn a world where everyone is trying to be someone they’re not, it’s important to remember that you should always dare to be yourself. I’m here to remind you of all the things about your personality and quirks that make you unique and wonderful. 

Hold onto your horses; I don,t know you, and perhaps, I should not be talking about your personality. So please forgive me. Anyway, Don’t try so hard because we all know there is no one like you! 

In other words, you are perfect in every way; we need more people like you in this world. And let our true colors shine through. 

So take a deep breath, get comfortable with who you are, and dare to be YOU! 

I realized a long time ago, no matter how you slice it, we’re all a little bit weird in some form or fashion. I have also learned that it is not what others think of you; it is how you feel about yourself.

but luckily for us, there are some great people out there who celebrate individuality- they call themselves “weirdos.” 

Point Blank..No if but about it.

Therefore, just be yourself and hope that someone finds the quirky charm in your personality endearing.

Dare to be YOU!  If not you’re not true to yourself. 

Below are four ways to learn how to be yourself and be happily:

  • Don’t worry about others’ opinions of you.
  • Own your mistakes and learn from them.
  • No one is perfect, and it’s important to own up when we make mistakes. But positive self-talk can be a more powerful tool in overcoming negative thoughts than trying not to think about the problem or dwell on what could go wrong. 
  • Everyone has the power to be happy. It starts with self-love and appreciation for what you have, but it also helps if your positive outlook on life outweighs any negative thoughts that may come up in a day’s schedule or conversation. 
  • One of my favorite ways of doing this? Finding an activity, when times get tough- things happen from time to time and doing my hobbies remains at hand, readily providing solace during these trying moments by reminding myself why being alive is worth all the challenges we face; together!

Final Thoughts

It takes courage to be yourself, but you are brave. You deserve the life that will make your heart sing and fulfill all of your dreams. The steps may seem difficult at first, but they’re accessible when you do them one step at a time.

And not only does being yourself make things less complicated, but it also means you’ll live authentically rather than faking or forcing anything. 

In other words, by simply staying true to yourself, you will have the best chance at achieving happiness and living a fulfilling life filled with love & laughter. You deserve nothing less, so don’t give up on chasing after YOUR dreams!

When you are authentic, you choose your path. Letting go of what you don’t need when you live your life for yourself and not just the results of your actions (faking it till you make it). 

This clarifies and pushes purpose to you, living for something greater than you.Book on Dare to be you.

You will find that making decisions based on what will achieve your goals will help you attain the life you want, and your success with each step will allow you to enjoy the process. 

How to Be True to Yourself and Live the Life You Want. Read more

“The things that make me different are the things that make me.” – Winnie The Pooh

Dare To Be You.

 Be Blessed!

Favor…Hey Can You Help Me With 1?

Favor

Hey would you do me a favor, I woke up in the morning and looked at my reflection in the mirror. My hair is grayer, wrinkles around my eyes are more pronounced, and I could feel something was wrong with this picture.

I went to grab a cup of coffee, but when I got to the kitchen table, it felt like something had changed again. It wasn’t just because of what was happening behind me. The chair next to mine had just been vacated by someone who left their jacket on the seat before they walked away for good.

 If you could do me a favor?

So, I’m writing this story in the hope that someone will read it, and remind me, when I can’t remember my name or where I live or what day today is;  so if you could do me a favor and tell me my name at least, then that would mean a lot!

I am over sixty, and I feel like 20. Growing old Gracefully 

Advice from the professionals:

You know what they say, ‘time waits for no man.’ Sure, you cannot avoid the aging process, but you do have some level of control when it comes to how you age. Successful aging isn’t just about luck; in fact, there are specific steps that you can take today to influence how well you age in the future. The following ten tips will help you age gracefully as you support your overall well-being.

Learn To Stay Positive

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Carrying around negativity can threaten your health and encourage the aging process. Think about instances when you were stressed and upset – did you experience any physical symptoms? Research suggests that there’s a direct link between negative thinking patterns and the development of health complications. Do not harbor feelings of hostility and anger, as multiple studies have linked these factors to an increased risk of dementia, heart disease, and stroke.

Personal goal setting is vital throughout life – helping you find purpose and meaning. When you set goals, you naturally increase your level of motivation, pushing you to do more.

As you set and reach your goals, you’ll focus on the most meaningful aspects of your life. It’s all about reinventing yourself, looking forward to the days ahead. As you reach different stages in your life, set new goals to live a fulfilling and positive lifeRead more here

I am a Grandmother with many challenges and  my days is full of these things, but that’s just the way it is for us older ladies.

As my Life is moving quickly, I want to enjoy it with peace. Still, every day is full of challenges and new opportunities to live fully in the present moment.

Life is good–There’s more to life than what meets the eye. Even when you can’t see it, the sun is always burning and the stars are always shining. The world is spinning and you’re grounded on the earth. Crystals are hiding in ordinary stones!

 

No age of life is inglorious. Youth has its merits, but living to a ripe old age is the true statement of value. Aging is the road that we take to discern our character. Fame and fortune can elude us, but character is immortal. We must encounter a sufficient variety of experiences including both failures and accomplishments in order to gain nobility of character.”
Kilroy J. Oldster, Dead Toad Scrolls

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