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Interracial Marriage: Richard & Mildred When Love Happens!

 


Mildred Jeter and Richard Loving Photo ban on interracial marriages
Mildred Jeter and Richard LovingPhoto: Getty Images

The Ban on interracial marriage. During the seventeenth and early eighteenth century;

the growing number of interracial marriages (also known as miscegenation) between Blacks and whites led to the passage of this new law.

The first anti-miscegenation lawenacted was in the colony of Maryland in 1664 and additional colonies quickly followed suit.

These marriages were prohibited and penalties included the enslavement, exile or imprisonment of the white perpetrators.

These laws grew and evolved over the years and attempts were even made to modify the Constitution to ban interracial marriage in all states.

It would take three hundred years for this law to be overturned.

In 1967, Richard Loving, a white man, and Mildred Jeter, a Black woman, were married in the District of Columbia.

Mildred and Richard Loving had been married just a few weeks when, in the early morning hours of July 11, 1958, Sheriff Garnett Brooks ;

and two deputies, acting on an anonymous tip that the Lovings were in violation of Virginia law, stormed into the couple’s bedroom.

When the sheriff demanded to know who Mildred was to Richard, she offered up the answer: “I’m his wife.”

When Richard gestured to the couple’s marriage certificate hanging on the wall, the sheriff coldly stated the document held no power in their locale.

Virginia law in fact forbade black and white citizens from marrying outside of the state and then returning to live within the state. 

Richard ended up spending a night in jail, with the pregnant Mildred spending several more nights there. The couple eventually pleaded guilty to violating the Virginia law.

The commonwealth of Virginia…

Asserted that its ban on interracial marriages were in place to avoid a host of resulting sociological ills, and that the law was not in violation of the Fourteenth Amendment. 

On June 12, 1967, the high court agreed unanimously in favor of the Lovings, striking down Virginia’s law.

And thus allowing the couple to return home while also ending the ban on interracial marriages in other states.

The court held that Virginia’s anti-miscegenation statute violated both the Equal Protection Clause and the Due Process Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment. 

Chief Justice Earl Warren wrote the opinion for the court, stating marriage is a basic civil right and to deny this right on a basis of race is “directly subversive of the principle of equality;

At the heart of the Fourteenth Amendment” and deprives all citizens “liberty without due process of law.”

Conclusion

The ban on interracial marriage was a law that reflected America’s history of racial discrimination.

Most states outlawed interracial marriage until the 1960s when the Supreme Court ruled them unconstitutional.

 

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—Biography.com Editor

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Cocaine and Fentanyl…The Deadly Mix!

Cocaine and FentanylCocaine and Fentanyl are a dangerous mix. Fentanyl is a powerful synthetic opioid that is up to 100 times more potent than morphine.

It is often used to cut or lace other drugs, like cocaine because it is cheap and easy to obtain. This is a deadly combination because it is hard to know how much Fentanyl is in the cocaine, and it only takes a very small amount to cause an overdose.

One year since my younger brother was found dead behind a building in Huntsville, Alabama, on May 11, 2021. His body lay there for three days before anybody found him. 

Today, May 12, 2022, marks one year since the task of planning a memorial service for my brother fell to me.

Yesterday

We were shocked, and we are still shocked today! According to his toxicology report, his death was caused by Fentanyl and cocaine.

I’ll tell you…We couldn’t have an open casket because his body wasn’t “fit” for viewing after being outside in the heat of Alabama for so long… he was cremated instead. 

My heart broke looking at the photo of his body lying on the table in the coroners’ office. Realized that I couldn’t believe what I was looking at.

That said, I don’t have to wonder where he at. See, he is in my home today, sitting on top of a table that constantly reminds me of where I can find him.

 My brother’s death… is one of those moments when you think this couldn’t happen in my family.

A year on…

I am still trying to figure out why my brother engaged in such a deadly mix. Could he have known what the drugs contained? No! 

Dealers who sell Fentanyl may mix it with heroin, cocaine, methamphetamine, and MDMA.

 Fentanyl is a cheaper option because it only requires a small amount to produce a high. People who take drugs might not realize they might contain Fentanyl as a cheap but dangerous additive.

CDC statistics 

Show that opioid overdose deaths have increased in three waves.

  1. The first wave began with increased prescribing of opioids in the 1990s, with overdose deaths involving prescription opioids (natural and semi-synthetic opioids and methadone) increasing since at least 1999.
  2. The second wave began in 2010, with rapid increases in overdose deaths involving heroin
  3. The third wave began in 2013, with significant increases in overdose deaths involving synthetic opioids, particularly those involving illicitly manufactured Fentanyl
  4. The market for illicitly manufactured Fentanyl continues to change, and it can be found in combination with heroin, counterfeit pills, and cocaine. 

Final thoughts

The Terrifying Truth about the Deadly Cocktails That Are Killing the US!

https://nida.nih.gov/publications/drugfacts/fentanyl

https://www.getsmartaboutdrugs.gov/

CHARLES B…ANGEL IN HEAVEN!

Intimate partner violence

Intimate partner violence (IPV)…let’sTalk

Intimate partner violence Intimate partner violence (IPV) …my family was dealt a devastating blow when we lost an integral member to it. 

My great-niece became an orphan thanks to her father’s murder of this child’s mother and suicide right afterward – but it could have been so much worse since she was in the house.

The sad situation is that this little child was home when her dad murdered her mommy. Unfortunately…This moment will become something she needs to deal with for years, maybe even decades.

Who knows, the awful circumstances that led up today? 

There has been some recent trouble between them at home, but none would explain why he committed such vicious crimes.

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NEVER GIVE UP ON YOUR DREAMS

Never give upWe should never give up on dreaming. Why? Because without dreams what  would life be like…if we have nothing to look forward too? Mine you now dreams are what gives you a purpose in life.

Sometimes we might fail the first time attempting to bright a dream to life and we just give up without even trying again.

Over the years I’ve dreamed about so many things that I wanted to do; for example, I wanted to become a doctor. Well that’s as far as I got with that dream. Circumstances and nobody to turn to for support, I gave up on that dream.

My next dream was to go into the military. Well I made the first step I went to an Air Force Recruitment Office took a series of tests and failed. Guess what I never tried again.

From that point on I was disheartened because there were so many obstacles and barriers blocking every little thing. So, I just went about finding my way in a world that was full of mean and hateful people

I GAVE UP ON MY DREAMS TEMPORARILY 

Luckily, I had the determination and new dreams to bring to life. Such as…becoming a wife and mother of no more than two children.  Girls are what I wanted. Growing up the oldest in a family of ten kids…six of them hard-headed boys.  I just made the decision I didn’t want any.

A funny thing happened, at 21 years old I got married.  Twenty-two had my first daughter, them at twenty-four I had my second daughter.  That was it…as life would have it I couldn’t deliver them naturally. See for reasons unknown I only dilated 4 centimeters with the first and  0 with the second after hours of being in labor.

 Moving forward...I did accomplish my dream of going to college and becoming a supporter of this country.  I got a degree in Business management and spend 25 years working for the Federal Government. It’s never too late, all you have to do is try and never give up!

 

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The Case that Changed Illegal Marriages


Mildred Jeter and Richard Loving Photo ban on interracial marriages
Mildred Jeter and Richard LovingPhoto: Getty Images

Ban on interracial marriages—During the seventeenth and early eighteenth century, the growing number of interracial marriages (also known as miscegenation) between Blacks and whites led to the passage of this new law.

The first anti-miscegenation law enacted was in the colony of Maryland in 1664 and additional colonies quickly followed suit. These marriages were prohibited and penalties included the enslavement, exile or imprisonment of the white perpetrators.

These laws grew and evolved over the years and attempts were even made to modify the Constitution to ban interracial marriage in all states.

It would take three hundred years for this law to be overturned.

In 1967, Richard Loving, a white man, and Mildred Jeter, a Black woman, were married in the District of Columbia.

Mildred and Richard Loving had been married just a few weeks when, in the early morning hours of July 11, 1958, Sheriff Garnett Brooks and two deputies, acting on an anonymous tip that the Lovings were in violation of Virginia law, stormed into the couple’s bedroom.

When the sheriff demanded to know who Mildred was to Richard, she offered up the answer: “I’m his wife.” When Richard gestured to the couple’s marriage certificate hanging on the wall, the sheriff coldly stated the document held no power in their locale.

Virginia law in fact forbade black and white citizens from marrying outside of the state and then returning to live within the state. 

Richard ended up spending a night in jail, with the pregnant Mildred spending several more nights there. The couple eventually pleaded guilty to violating the Virginia law.

The commonwealth of Virginia asserted that its ban on interracial marriages were in place to avoid a host of resulting sociological ills, and that the law was not in violation of the Fourteenth Amendment. 

On June 12, 1967, the high court agreed unanimously in favor of the Lovings, striking down Virginia’s law and thus allowing the couple to return home while also ending the ban on interracial marriages in other states.

The court held that Virginia’s anti-miscegenation statute violated both the Equal Protection Clause and the Due Process Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment. 

Chief Justice Earl Warren wrote the opinion for the court, stating marriage is a basic civil right and to deny this right on a basis of race is “directly subversive of the principle of equality at the heart of the Fourteenth Amendment” and deprives all citizens “liberty without due process of law.”

—Biography.com Editor