Month: August 2021

Cat Links Posts

Tips About A Cheater You Can’t Afford To Miss

JusMee

cheaterSome abuse is not physical. Abuse does not have to be physical. There’s emotional abuse, psychological abuse, and spiritual abuse. -Iyanla Vanzant

How do you know if your partner is a cheater? If you’re asking this question, you already suspect that you’re the victim of infidelity. The signs of cheating are not the same in all relationships.

 Sure, but there are some common behaviors you can look for. First and foremost,  If your gut tells you that your partner is cheating, more than likely they are.

How do I know? I am a victim of it. Here is what I did and said:

These are the things that come from you to me…

  1. You become hostile towards me regularly
  2. Without cause, you make nasty, derogatory remarks to me
  3. You are mentally abusive towards me
  4. Your need to please me and do things for me, in an attempt to make me to believe that you are not a liar and a serial cheater. Because you still do things for me
  5. Your words say I have not shtup other women, but your actions …the condoms and getting an STD to declare otherwise

This marriage and relationship are TOXIC, so to avoid further hostility, until you tell me the TRUTH...It would be best if you didn’t touch me; I refuse to give you the satisfaction of having sex with you ever again.

Finally, this is a dangerous, sick game my dear…be a man; I know for a fact that you have had sex many times with many, many sluts, whores, side pieces so STOP trying to turn your lies into truth. I know better.

Seriously,  If you want to fix one of the problems in this marriage, take a good look at yourself in the mirror, decide who you are…the lying deceitful cheater or a respectful man that truly love your wife and doesn’t play with her emotions.

Listen carefully…I expect to be treated with the respect I deserve, and if I am not the one you want …you should walk out of this marriage. Go on get far away from me…see you have gone too far.

SIMPLY PUT, I WANT MY FREEDOM to meet possibly a man that is more about honesty and respect, who will not go outside the relationship looking for a piece of ass.

Unfortunately,  I can’t do that if I am still unhappily chained to you. 

Sincerely your wife

 

Final thought:Read about cheaters

Cheating is the most selfish thing a person can do in a relationship! If you are not happy with the person you are with, then end it. It’s that simple

Cat Links Posts

Anger, Strife, And Anxiety Today Can Be A Challenge

JusMee
 

 

Anger

Anger…Even with so much suffering and conflict, it might seem like the world has no joy to offer; there is hope for happiness.

Be that as it may, when you are so focused on the negative things happening in your own life, when things are called into question and the potential unavoidable casualty that may arise at any moment, you can deter your capability to feel joy. 

However, joy is what provides life’s perception and meaning. If you want to become a better version of yourself, take the time to cultivate your happiness.

Today, I’d like to share simple ways to create time to experience more joy in your life.

  1. Don’t sweat the small stuff; things happen
  2. Choose your battles to fight, what is most important to you.
  3. Think before you speak. It is not necessary to react straight away.
  4. Take a deep breath in a stressful situation, then walk away if necessary.
  5. Idiots are going to be just that…don’t waste your time and brain cells trying to turn on the light switch in hers/his brain. And showing anger.
  6. Most importantly, Be Who You Are. God broke the mold, so there is no one else like you.
  7. One of the best ways to be happy and enjoy life is to surround yourself with POSITIVITY. Think positive! Be positive!
  8. Forget having a PITY PARTY. Find ways to solve whatever is bugging you.
  9. Pray…asking God to guide you.
  10. Follow GOOD ADVICE. After all, you don’t know everything. If you want to become a better version of yourself, take the time to cultivate your happiness.Read More

… Continue reading

getting shit done
Cat Links Blogs

Attack Guess What Everything You Need To

JusMee

Guess what…the January 6 riot is not talked about in the news as often as it did when it happened eight months ago. However, during this time, several rioters have been tried and sentenced. Hence…they all should plead guilty because their faces and actions were plastered across the news outlet.

And they have NO defense…none whatsoever.

 

… Continue reading

Cat Links Posts

Child Tax Credit…Where is it?

JusMee

By Malaika Jabali ·August 13, 2021August 13, 2021The IRS distributed the second round of advance Child payments today, but some families …

“Where’s My Child Tax Credit?” Find Out Why You May Not Have Received Your Monthly Payment

Who Qualifies for Advance Payments

To qualify for advance payments of the Child Tax Credit, you (and your spouse, if you filed a joint return) must have:

  • Filed a 2019 or 2020 tax return and claimed the Child Tax Credit on the return or
  • Given us your information in 2020 to receive the Economic Impact Payment with the Non-Filers: Enter Payment Info Here tool or
  • Given us your information in 2021 with the Non-Filer: Submit Your Information tool; and
  • Lived in a main home in the United States for more than half the year (the 50 states and the District of Columbia) or filed a joint return with a spouse who has a main home in the United States for more than half the year; and
  • A qualifying child who is under age 18 at the end of 2021 and who has a valid Social Security number; and
  • Made less than certain income limits.

Important changes to the Child Tax Credit will help many families get advance payments of the Child Tax Credit starting in the summer of 2021.

Half the total credit amount will be paid in advance monthly payments and you will claim the other half when you file your 2021 income tax return. We’ll issue the first advance payment on July 15, 2021. For a full schedule of payments, see If I’m eligible to receive advance Child Tax Credit payments, when will I start receiving payments?

If you don’t have a bank account for direct deposit, see Don’t have a bank account?

Cat Links Posts

Voting Rights Campaign By NAACP

JusMee
sVoting rights

By Donna M. Owens ·Voting Rights…August 12, 2021August 12, 2021A multiracial coalition of civil rights, social justice, and labor organizations have launched a …

NAACP and Allies in Labor, Social Justice Kick Off New Multiracial Voting Rights Campaign

A multiracial coalition of civil rights, social justice, and labor organizations have launched a national campaign aimed at raising awareness of voting rights protections. It’s called `Fighting for Our Vote.’  

However, the new campaign is being spearheaded by the NAACP, ACLU, AFSCME, American Federation of Teachers, AFL-CIO, and the National Education Association. Collectively, the groups represent millions of members. 

“America cannot call itself a representative democracy if all the people are not represented,” said Bishop Leah Daughtry in a statement to ESSENCE.

The nationally recognized political strategist, activist and faith leader will serve as campaign manager for the coalition. 

“Unfortunately, we are in the throes of an ongoing attack from those seeking to marginalize voices at the ballot and unjustly tip the scales of democracy,” Daughtry continued.

That said…“We are determined to organize diverse people around voting, build a group of volunteers to become voting rights champions, and impact voting rights legislation in specific states where voter suppression efforts have been identified.”

Additionally, the campaign plans to coordinate mass mobilization efforts and advocacy.

Organizers said in a press conference they will target key U.S. cities to push for the passage of federal and state legislation that allows access to the ballot box in all communities.